Too late

By lynxstorm - 17/11/2009 04:13 - United States

Today, I broke up with my boyfriend whom I love dearly because he doesn't share his feelings and won't commit. Yesterday, he wrote me a long love letter telling me he wanted to marry me. One of my kids had shoved it under my printer and I didn't find it until after he had moved out. FML
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kakek_fml 0

He was ready to commit, and you didn't managed to clear things up before dumping him ? Well, you must have messed up the dumping pretty bad to not even give him a hint or a chance to tell you directly he was ready to commit.

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NathanKett 0

ydi for not having sausage rolls for lunch last Tuesday.

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NathanKett 0

ydi for not having sausage rolls for lunch last Tuesday.

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notime2wait 0

Bahahahaha! That's got to be the best reason ever for a YDI

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Googoo27 12

lolz, not Lola, autocorrect is a b1tch

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Googoo27 12

once again, autocorrect sh1ts on me, it changed back to lolz... my iPhone sucks

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Googoo27 12

plz ignore my comments, they make no sense

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armyofficerwife 0

About as relevant of an argument as the rest of these dumb comments. Are most of you little fifteen year olds with nothing better to do than insult people on the Internet and jack off to **** your grandma made?

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EpicJames24 18

if you're going to rage about irrelevant arguments, please use a more relevant argument than "jerking off to **** your grandma made"

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anjyu22 0

The guy didn't care about you enough if he didn't have the balls to say it out loud before he moved out. If he loved you he would - and probably still will - do his best to get you back. And if he doesn't bother, it wasn't meant to be. Chalk this one up to fate. Of course, if it's that important to you, the phone works both ways.

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pleasetryagain 0

THANK YOU. You're the first person to make sense here. The OP was upset because this guy wasn't committing to her and instead of telling her how he really feels, he writes it somewhere like a pussy. When she doesn't bring it up he doesn't mention a SINGLE THING about the letter or it's contents. Presumably, he had a long time to say something before she broke up with him, but he didn't do it. He could have said something when she was telling him the reasons for the breakup. How is she the bad person for not wanting to put up with her boyfriend being a huge pussy?

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Thanitos 0

Some people are just better at writing out their feelings instead of directly expressing them. But if you're that needy you probably did him a huge favor...

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i_is_a_tr00l 0

Do you like Fish Sticks? Do you like putting them in your mouth? Gay Fish. c:

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waitinggg 0

didn't want to commit?? he was already moved in with you...that's not enough of a sign telling you he wants commitment??!

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Jewelofagal 2

Living together isn't the same as making a committment. Do you realize how many people agree to live with someone as a way to side-step marriage? They do it to make their partner believe that relationship is progressing and marriage is eminent when they actually just want to delay the decision to commit and figure that living together will, "shut him/her up for a while (about marriage)".

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HOB0HUNTER 2

#29- living together, and being in a relationship, ARE committments. It's strange that so many people seem to think otherwise. I guess I'll just chalk up that confusion to the way people assume "comitting" only means "marriage"...

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JustaAngel 6

YDI for watching Beyonce's Single Ladies video 1 too many times.

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onyxindigo 0

Call him back and tell him you found the letter ? Apologise ? Soooo easily fixed, you must be stupid.

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Jewelofagal 2

One change in his behavior (writing the letter) doesn't undo the fact that he's still the same person he's always been (someone unable to commit and show his feelings). His M.O. isn't what she needs or wants, so she would be wise to not chase him down because of one last-ditch letter in which he never bothered to follow up verbally.

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chakrabs 0

This makes no sense to me. After you broke up for that reason, he didnt once protest and say "but I wrote you that letter, WTF? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ljq0mYbqyqc&feature=player_embedded

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kindness 0

mm yeah i was thinking that. that doesn't make sense.

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perdix 29

The guy lives with you and wants to propose to you in a letter? I hope you didn't want any more children, because that coward has no balls.

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DynamicDave 11

And you didn't discuss this with him first? YDI hardcore.

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strangersdk 0

YDI. He should have protested - though maybe he figured you had already read the letter and discarded it. Now just get a hold of him and apologize like crazy.

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