By AloneAgainNaturally - 09/09/2016 21:03 - United States - Charlottesville

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Today, I found nudes on my boyfriend's phone. We've been together 14 years. They weren't of me. FML
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MessedUpLife00 13

Well, I'd talk to him, try to see what was going on. Don't be easy to trick either, ask him for the truth, if he gives it to you. I would leave that to your morality, we all make mistakes. But it depends on how we try and fix them, if he's dishonest, dump him. But, FYL

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GoldenTornado11 15

I imagine you and your boyfriend will have a very long talk.

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ModerateComments 9

This is sad to read. Maybe someone sent the pics to him without his asking.

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DoomedGemini 37

It's more likely she found them saved to the phone rather than she looked through text messages

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roverman89 3

He might be wandering since you've been together for 14 years and not married yet

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paperroof 1

Hey- at least you weren't with him for 15 years

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PsychoLlama_fml 7

same thing happened to me, found out my boyfriend of three years has been cheating those three years and didnt love me until basically 3 months ago. he only kept me around because of our kids. I was a 'root gone wrong'. he still wont tell me the truth about the nudes, videos and sexting.

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BBB8 1

How about the other side that "AloneAgainNaturally" didn't spill to you all. The ONE nude was a photo of a woman's breasts that my friend in Texas had sex with that he sent to me. Wrong to have on my phone? Yes. We've been together since we were 15 years old. We're engaged but can't get married until I finish law school this year for financial reasons. She's the only woman I've ever been with and the only woman I've ever loved. And before I'm demonized on here, "AloneAgainNaturally" failed to mention how she openly flirted with my best friend constantly in high school in front of me and texted him on the phone all night while we were together. It got so bad that I had to plead with her to cut off communication with him, and she cried when she told him she couldn't talk to him anymore. She also sat in a car and watched another of my friends ********** because she heard that "he had a big d**k and [she] wanted to see how big it was." All of this happened over 10 years ago and I forgave her and didn't bring it up after that. I think I can be given some leeway on a nude I accidentally saved on my phone of one of my friend's conquests. But thanks to everyone for telling her to break up with me. I know I wouldn't feel comfortable encouraging such a life-altering decision like ending a 14 year relationship from a ten word post on FML.

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roxykarmel 2

You should break up with each other. That relationship is heading no where. You both deserve better. Look at how dumb it sounds that you have come to social media about your relationship. Sorry, go be harsh, but it's better to leave now before marriage. Good luck.

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roxykarmel 2

If you're together that long, he hasn't married you, and you found those photos, it's time to find someone who deserves you.

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staceyymaee 8

Its been 14 years and yall re still "boyfriend and Girlfriend"??

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tamesenicole 27

You've been dating 14 years and he hasn't proposed yet? Finding those pics should be the last straw OP. It means he doesn't respect you enough to even marry you. Move on and find someone better

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skylera1111 2

jeez 14 years and he hasnt proposed? rough

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