By AloneAgainNaturally - 09/09/2016 21:03 - United States - Charlottesville

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Today, I found nudes on my boyfriend's phone. We've been together 14 years. They weren't of me. FML
I agree, your life sucks 18 375
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Same thing different taste

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Well, I'd talk to him, try to see what was going on. Don't be easy to trick either, ask him for the truth, if he gives it to you. I would leave that to your morality, we all make mistakes. But it depends on how we try and fix them, if he's dishonest, dump him. But, FYL

I imagine you and your boyfriend will have a very long talk.

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You've been together for 14 years and haven't married? I mean good thing, he was cheating, but still, that's surprising

14 years and you're only his gf? you have much bigger problems

Pretty sure him potentially cheating is a bigger problem than not being married. Some people just aren't bothered about marriage.

And by "they" I assume you mean all the single middle-aged people?

People need to cool it about the whole getting married thing. Everyone is different and there are a ton of reasons a couple may wait a long time or even never get married. Plus it has no real impact on the situation, plenty of married men and women cheat after all.

Are they of someone you know? All of the same woman or different ones? Attached to messages or just saved? They're probably from the internet and all it means is your boyfriend wanks, like every one else. Not really a FML IMHO until you know they indicate something worse than that.

lollypop30001 19

Well it's time to come front him and ask why? It's crazy y'all been together 14 years and he your boyfriend! Good luck hope for the best. Maybe there from a **** site and he screen shot them to give him self a happy ending?

It could be worse. He could be dexter and the nudes are his trophies. Or that could be his wife and you're the girl on the side.

He could have downloaded the pics from the internet. Why immediately jump to the conclusion that someone sent them to him and that he's cheating?