By Xandriajoy10 - 31/01/2016 03:44 - Australia - Sydney

Today, I confronted my husband about a pair of panties I found in his office. They're his. He put them on to show me that they fit. FML
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Xandriajoy10 tells us more.

Hey OP here. For those that have given support or made a joke, it's much appreciated. It's really helped to see the brighter side of the situation. For a little more back story; I was in his office originally looking for an envelope and found the underwear in the back of one of his drawers. We discussed it at length, I tried to make sure he felt accepted and not judged. It has helped our relationship more than I could have thought. I always wondered if he was holding something back, it's relieving to have everything out in the open. I did a little research and have found that it is common among men. As for only finding one, he showed me his 'stash' of bras and lingerie that he had hidden in his shed. Hopefully he'll be more open and honest with me about what he likes and what I can do to please him.

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yay! that sounds awesome, and you sound awesome for your reaction and openness. enjoy your more confident partner ;D

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corky1992 33

He could have just used that as a cover up

People like what they like. You ****** up.

That's not bad at all. Just except him and the appreciate the fact he isn't stretching out yours haha

either he's a fast thinker or damm you married a drag queen

dannnngthatsux 19

Um. No. Drag queens are gay, not all crossdressers are gay, in fact women cross dress lots of times and we men think it's sexy (she wears your men's shirt...) Ever seen a woman dress as a football player for Halloween?

That's such bulls**t. This isn't the first time I heard something like this. What man would go out and buy one pair of panties just to try them on?

Some men would because they have a fetish for wearing women's underwear.

Wyrmflight 13

you're assuming this is the only pair he owns. maybe he has more hidden. and I know plenty of men who wear panties just because they like then

ok so everyone is like 'at least he's not cheating' and 'so he wears panties' but i want to know why there were just loose panties in his office

Wyrmflight 13

we have a home office attached to my parents bedroom, so maybe it's like that?

Because op came on here about finding out he wears them? He probably didn't want her to know because he feared humiliation or shaming.

Well, that's better than him cheating on you. Be glad he isn't a scum bag. Also, if you're not accepting of a man exploring things, that's fine, maybe he was just curious and it was just a one time thing, if not and he enjoys wearing lady underwear then you shouldn't be too judgemental. Yeah, it's a little weird, but you married him because you love him. People have quirks, is it really that bad of a thing? Sorry you found out the way you did, OP. Maybe the two of you should have a talk.

schreibergx93 19

Maybe they're more comfortable to him than regular mens underwear.

I'm not so sure I'd believe that story so quickly, just seems a little extreme. I would still look into it further.

a little extreme? as fetishes go it is really rather common