Yes, you are. It takes a lot to admit it. Everyone needs some time to u wind after a stressful or draining day at work. If he was given 5-10 minutes after he walked in the door to change clothes, and unwind a little, you would find him to be very receptive to your problems that he is being expected to fix the moment he gor home.

I don't know the whole situation, but give him some time when he gets home before bringing up anything. As Thaylok said, he may be more receptive after unwinding.

Yes, you've had a hard day. But so has your husband. How would you feel if you didn't even get time to pee after getting home? You'd be pissed off and frustrated as well. Give the guy 15 minutes to get showered, changed, out of work mode and into Dad/hubby mode. To be honest, YOU sound like the ungrateful, selfish arse. If you don't start giving him a buffer between finishing work and you dumping a tonne of shit on him, don't expect your marriage to last...

It would be so much better if he came in and yelled at you for 15 minutes, instead of decompressing quietly in his vehicle.

The person who posted this with that attitude deserves for hubby to come home from work one day and say, “I want a divorce”…