Acts of service

By Diet time 4 me smh - 11/07/2025 18:00 - United States

Today, I asked my best friend, who I love, what his new girlfriend has that I don’t. I've gone the extra mile, did favors, been there at his highest and lowest for about a year and a half, yet he rejected me and chose a girl who he’s merely known 5 months. Apparently a slim waist and perky boobs/butt matters more. FML
I agree, your life sucks 190
You deserved it 672

Same thing different taste

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Looks shouldn't be everything true, but neither is who someone loves a matter of who puts in more friendship / things done for you tokens for ANY gender. It's a bad look when 'nice guys' think if you do enough good things for a woman they should date you. It's a bad look for other genders too

Looks will always matter to most people, and being nice to someone doesn't make you entitled to a romantic relationship with them. 🙃

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Looks shouldn't be everything true, but neither is who someone loves a matter of who puts in more friendship / things done for you tokens for ANY gender. It's a bad look when 'nice guys' think if you do enough good things for a woman they should date you. It's a bad look for other genders too

If a person senses someone is in love with them, they should be honest and tell them it's not going to be romantic. Either gender.

Exactly. OP chose to act that way, hoping it would make the guy see her as more than a friend, and now she's just mad that it didn't work.

That bites. Sounds like he just strung you along, knowing you loved him, and used you for favors and conveniences. Sorry, dear. It happens to many people and it hurts. Leave the D in your rear view.

Looks will always matter to most people, and being nice to someone doesn't make you entitled to a romantic relationship with them. 🙃

You don't ever ask someone why they don't want you as a partner. you just accept it and move on. pestering about why will never make them want you

You can't make someone to love you no matter how many good deeds you do for them.