To each their own

By Geemee - 21/08/2025 15:00 - United States

Today, a guy I was into and who denied me because he “saw me as a friend only” began to date another girl. I asked him, “Why her and not me?” and he wouldn’t tell me. After pestering him, he finally caved in, saying, “Fine, plus sized girls are not my thing. Happy now?” So in other words, I have to lose weight to find love. FML
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thinman12345 16

Some people like skinny people and some like them chunky, you have to accept that not everyone likes both.

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sirrubberduckie 35

When someone is obviously letting you down easy, take that as a win and move on. Who really cares why they don't like you? Find someone else that does.

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thinman12345 16

Some people like skinny people and some like them chunky, you have to accept that not everyone likes both.

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copalolita 14

Ma’am you dodged a huuuuuge bullet. I feel sorry for whoever that guy ends up with. If he knocks up this new girl heaven forbid she gain some weight. Forget him and find someone who isn’t a shallow misogynist pos.

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jtookie 1

having a preference makes him a shallow pig? so are women shallow pigs when they’re not attracted to fat guys or short guys? you need therapy fr

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copalolita 14

Yes. Judging on looks is shallow af. If you judge a book by its cover you could miss out on someone amazing. And also, to have those unrealistic expectations that someone is gonna look the same 10-20 years from now is ridiculous. When they birth your kid, grow old and grey, what? You’re gonna leave them? Love shouldn’t be conditional.

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UnbrokenRose 11

What happened to "we all reserve a right to choose who we pick as a significant other"? Because that was part of a reply *you* made, on July 13th. 🤔 Not only does the guy not owe OP any explanation for why he rejected her, but he was trying to let her down easy by not giving her one. That is, until she literally annoyed it out of him. He's not shallow, and if she can't respect his right to say no, then she has worse issues than being overweight anyway. Once again, you're completely wrong (and a hypocrite).

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juggalo2 21

At least he rejected you for something you can change. If I knew that losing weight would get me more lovin' I would be in the gym 4 times a week.

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sirrubberduckie 35

When someone is obviously letting you down easy, take that as a win and move on. Who really cares why they don't like you? Find someone else that does.

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GoogieWithers 23

Everyone has different tastes. Sometimes you meet someone and your tastes aren't the same. This was one of those occasions. Nobody is at fault. You will meet someone who is attracted to you as much as you are to them.

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JasonThorn 20

Choice is relatively simple. Change to be appealing to that person. Change the person to someone who likes you as you are. Or C, condemn ALL men for being hung up on appearances. Which won't get you someone, but it make you feel better about yourself when you choose to be alone.

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