Acceptance

By Tina - 10/03/2026 20:00

Today, I realized how bad my family is as I slept over at my girlfriend's house and I finally got all the reasons why I like being there: I love her parents like they're mine. They give me, as well as her, lots of hugs, tell me they care about me, and make me feel welcome. Why aren't my folks like that? FML
I agree, your life sucks 49
You deserved it 17

Same thing different taste

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Some parents, some cultures just don’t give overt reinforcement of their love… My Mom told me that her parents never verbally expressed love - not to each other or their children. Mom decided to break that pattern when she had me. She chose to express her love. My Mom isn’t perfect, but she’s a good Mom… You probably won’t change your parents, but you can learn to express love and affirmation. There may be times when it’s not reciprocated or even taken advantage of - But it’s far better to live with appropriately expressed love and support, even when you have to create that “family” yourself.

Sounds like you won't be asking yourself in which family you'll spend Christmas this year!

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Some parents, some cultures just don’t give overt reinforcement of their love… My Mom told me that her parents never verbally expressed love - not to each other or their children. Mom decided to break that pattern when she had me. She chose to express her love. My Mom isn’t perfect, but she’s a good Mom… You probably won’t change your parents, but you can learn to express love and affirmation. There may be times when it’s not reciprocated or even taken advantage of - But it’s far better to live with appropriately expressed love and support, even when you have to create that “family” yourself.

Sounds like you won't be asking yourself in which family you'll spend Christmas this year!