Today, I was excited because a friend had added me to a new Facebook chat consisting of my tight circle of friends from last year's summer camp. I then saw when the chat had been created. They kept me out of the chat for almost an entire year before deciding to add me. FML
Alaskalex_fml tells us more.
Hey, this is OP. The camp is in Washington, and it looked like all the people in the chat were the campers from Washington, so my guess is that they created the chat just for the Washingtonians and started to add in people as camp time drew closer. The reason why it hurts a little is that I've had a pretty rough year with depression- I switched schools and ended up having no friends for about half the year- and it would have been nice to be able to talk with them and get some support, even though they lived so far away. I haven't said anything about it and I won't, there's no point in making a big deal out of something so little. To #13- I did the same thing many a time in order to make myself feel better about being the youngest and not being able to do the things my older siblings did. #22- Lol, okay, whatever you say. You seem a lot more invested in this than I am. #44- Yes, we have summer camps in Alaska, though I was referring to one in Washington. Contrary to popular belief, there exists four seasons in Alaska, not just winter.
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lanayamarie 12
At least you didn't get left out of a family chat...2 years it took them to remember they have a sister...
HuskiesGrey 13
Aww, man. Sometimes people can be really cruel. Keep you head up.
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HuskiesGrey 13
Aww, man. Sometimes people can be really cruel. Keep you head up.
nonsensical 26
Well maybe it wasn't intentional? maybe right before they added OP someone said "oh shit, I just realized OP isn't here! " if there's a lot of ppl in a group its easy to forget someone... or maybe I'm just naive and optimistic.
xKrisSmoove 21
#39 Maybe your right, maybe the group of people didn't know OP's Facebook last year but they found it out at this year's summer camp
lanayamarie 12
At least you didn't get left out of a family chat...2 years it took them to remember they have a sister...
Welshite 40
Eh. Family chats are overrated. My family included me in one last week, and I was spammed by over 70 messages in less than an hour. They continued on into the weekend. Thank God for the mute option.
lanayamarie 12
I missed them talking about the family holiday I was invited to the week before :L
Welshite 40
Last week's family chat was for a surprise birthday party they knew I couldn't attend. They only added me to guilt me into donating money for party supplies.
lanayamarie 12
That's just bullcrap isn't it! Rubbish families
elusiveshame 22
No need to bring up a pity party on someone else's fml
MrConcise 35
At least you guys have Facebooks. I'm so antisocial, I prefer people not be able to keep tabs on me.
elusiveshame 22
That sucks. Did you ask why, or just assuming reasons?
5secondsofvvifi 21
Exactly! Maybe they couldn't find OP's Facebook. Or maybe they just weren't as close as OP thought.
Cassandra2015 21
Don't fret it! there's more important things in life. your apart of it now thanks to one of your friends !
Mossygirl357 12
That sucks but at least your on the list now.
katie1243 16
Well at least they decided to add you! You won them over, be proud :)
Drosophila82 18
I don't understand why you got so many negative reviews... Can someone explain please?
mds9986 24
Well they could have just not added you. Better than nothing.
omid379 14
Leave the chat, so they know you don't give a ****
RuBloKon 15
That would be like Poland making leaps and bounds by joining the EU in 2004, then immediately leaving for massive economic loss because of not being accepted sooner.
lulinator 40
There's more to life than Facebook. Period. I used to be on there constantly. Deactivated my account a few months ago to kick the habit, and don't miss it at all.
santosb1 11
I thought maybe they just couldn't figure out your name at the time.