Today, I sent a student to the dean for trying to smoke pot in my class. His mother called to complain that I publicly humiliated her son. FML
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chinaski7628 32
This is my FML and I never realized it got published until I came across it under the random section. I thought I'd fill in the details because I think about this kid a lot. The student in question was on probation from two previous drug charges. He was a mess-- always drunk or high and everything he did was a cry for help (tagging, fighting, truancy). I'd had a meeting with his mother once already about him failing my class due to poor attendance. She accused me of lying (even though he told her he always ditched my class). He even admitted to me that he picked my class to smoke in because he wanted to get caught and he knew I would turn him in. It actually wasn't this incident that got him expelled-- a week or so later he punched his probation officer and after that I have no idea what happened to him. I don't totally blame him-- he was only 15, after all. And it was hard to see beyond the drugs and bad decisions, but he had brains and was a good artist-- he had potential. If he had had a better mother maybe he might have had a chance. Her denial damaged him considerably. I don't mind the troubled and damaged kids, but it's the parents who made them that way I have no patience for and that make my job difficult. This actually happened three years ago, so I can only hope he's pulled himself together. I know many people that have had similar rough starts to life and have made it out ok.
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badluckalex 23
I love teachers like you.
Welshite 40
He'll be more than publicly humiliated when he's suspended for drug use on school property.
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Jasper1405 16
Some parents just never cease to dissapoint my faith in humanity, I don't want to know where that kid is going to end up if his parents don't even bother to steer him in the right direction
jerryj 27
Ironically, she's the one now being publicly humiliated, since she is now on FML :)
Zomg_Okay 27
Yeah, apart from the fact that nobody here knows who she is or has any way to identify her.
MidnaLink 35
And that this could literally happen anywhere in California.
Speshelphreak 13
Well you know where his IQ level, great morals and standards all came from....
aephusvictus 7
Actually people with high IQ's are more likely to use drugs and also it's probably for some sort of attention from said mother who probably only cares about her own image and not her child's well being.
barlessprison 16
Guess the pot doesn't fall far from the marijuana plant.
fckgravity 4
You burnt him.
Ashamed_Sister 60
I hope that nickname doesn't mean you're fired, just frustrated.
Zomg_Okay 27
17 - I'd say it's just frustration. But really, if reporting a kid for doing drugs in the middle of a class was enough to get you fired, you'd be better off for it.
ZombieSazza 34
Tell her to complain to the dean that he was smoking cannabis in the middle of class. What a ******* idiot... Some people should have been drowned at birth, she's one of them.
WhiteCrimson 23
Wow it amazes me the way that people have changed the law to allow kids to rebel and treat their pedants like crap. Bring back Capital punishment!!!!!!!!
BenderJ_fml 5
Great idea! Act up in school - DIE!! How about corporal punishment instead?
Zomg_Okay 27
If the parents are allowing the kids to treat them like crap, no amount of corporal punishment will fix that.
tfriend3 15
Why would he be smoking pot in the open like that? She should be humiliated for raising a son that has no common sense. Tell her to stop complaining and seek professional help for her corrupted child.
Yeliab333 20
And the mother of the year is....