Exactly what I was thinking! Almost want to hit YDI for not taking care of it in a different way!

I did hit YDI. He was the one who had to get himself off. If it was awkward, it's her own fault.

Don't be ridiculous. OP didn't get off. It's not her job to get him off all the time. Sometimes he needs to take responsibility for himself, especially when the pleasure isn't mutual.

Good luck with your future relationships.. With that mindset, you're going to need it.

so what you're saying,76, is that as a woman op is obligated to always get her boyfriend off, even while sexually frustrated herself, and he shouldn't have to do anything in return, and if someone disagrees their relationships are doomed? that's a pretty horrible outlook on intimacy between couples.

I never said anything "as a woman" In my opinion, when you are in a relationship you are certainly responsible for meeting the physical needs of your partner. And I also not once said that she should do it without getting anything in return. I'm saying OP deserved it because she did nothing to help the situation.

All I'm saying. No one in a relationship should have to take care of themselves. It's all about doing for each other.

Exactly. @dragoongirl90

Furthermore, when she decide to sit there and watch instead of helping, it became her fault. Maybe he would have reciprocated. But if you just sit there and say FML because you're watching your man pleasure himself, there is an obvious solution.

Or a convertible...