wanna go out?

sometime when we date someone too nice, it makes is feel shit. if u know what I mean

Shit happens. You being so awesome and seemingly flawless probably intimidated her. She's probably insecure, and feels like she's not good enough, and I'd say it makes her feel worthless and undeserving. In that case, it /is/ the best thing for you both. You shouldn't date someone who makes you feel inferior- even if they don't mean to. She needs to fix her issues with herself before she dates /anyone/, actually. She obviously has some problems of her own, about herself. No worries, man.

Awwww how sweet

Translation: You're boring.

Girls don't necessarily want assholes, but we don't want someone who will be absolutely predictable EVERY MINUTE OF THE DAY.

listen same shit happened to me...with about the same reasoning as well. I don't think because a guy is good that they are predictable. Some are yes, but not all are so AmeOwl chill out, don't be bitter that you are alone. And dude if your girl says that she's probably not the best person to be with...plus if you're so awesome you'll find someone even better.

so true #33. I can agree with that because that same exact thing happened to me...

Sounds like an excuse for her not being that in to you. Or you have some disgusting habits. She was trying to let you off with out hurting your feelings. Who knows? (but not because you're too perfect. hah! What a load of crap.)

Sorry you had a bad day, but put on your big boy pants and man up! Sounds like she has crappy self esteem issues and she doesn't know how to behave in a real relationship. Count yourself lucky that you found this out now and not after you get married and she starts "acting up" so you can "punish her" for being a "bad girl." Long story short -- she's Trouble with a capital 'T' and you just got a blessing. Thank God for the easy out and go find yourself a nice girl.