Family, Awkward and Miscellaneous: Today, my father asked me to never contact him again. The reason?...

By forgottendaughter - 17/01/2010 14:41 - South Africa

Today, my father asked me to never contact him again. The reason? His "new" family doesn't know I exist and explaining that he has a 28 year-old daughter to his wife and his other children would be "awkward". I have siblings that I will never meet. FML

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By T - 01/10/2010 09:09 - France

Today, I got the guts to call my dad for the first time in nine years. He said he "almost didn't remember" he "had another daughter." Another? FML

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By Anonymous - 01/02/2017 18:00 - United States - Twinsburg

Today, I was pulled aside by my father's new wife and told, "You're not your dad's favorite anymore and you need to stop acting like it." FML

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By anonymous - 15/10/2017 01:30

Today, my dad's face flushed when I introduced him to my new boyfriend. I live in a small town, and it turns out my dad recognized him. He's the secret child from an affair two decades ago. He's my half-brother. FML

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Sunday 17 January 2010 19:59

he's an ass

Lounia_fml 8

Sunday 17 January 2010 20:02

Tell him that he can't contact you either because it would be awkward explaining to your new dad.

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cheerleader58965 0

Monday 18 January 2010 2:11

omg wow I kinda have that situation it's hard bit I think you should just show at his door and explain who you are to the family while he's not there and than I'll ruin his life

rawrrgirl 0

Monday 18 January 2010 2:49

turn up at the house. it'll ruin the family when they find out anyway. they WILL find out.

Sparkiee93 3

Monday 18 January 2010 2:54

How can a person be so callous to their own child? That's really repulsive. If I where you I would one-up him and show up at his door with an "I LOVE YOU DADDY!" Balloon. Also, bring baby pictures and other family trinkets to prove to his wife that you are his real daughter. And don't lie to them, tell them that he told you to never speak to him again THEN leave forever.

MkaBoss23 0

Monday 18 January 2010 2:58

I would showbup to his house for surre ,

greeneye_fml 12

Monday 18 January 2010 3:19

Show up to his house. Or make it seem like he's having an affair to get back at him.

Sekococo 0

Monday 18 January 2010 3:19

last year is the first time when i saw my half-siblings and we had a great relationship since. Thou am still told to aviod them doesnt me am going to listen. OP , you should make some contact despite what your father said , **** your dad and meet your siblings for them not who there with.

Nic_hole 0

Monday 18 January 2010 3:38

Awww:( I'm sorry, your dads really not right for that, but I'm sure you don't deserve that, just let him be like that, that family will know eventually, that's billshit

lover1995 0

Monday 18 January 2010 4:00

ha ha no offence but I'd be like **** u go rot in hell for all I care!!

pdchamp 6

Monday 18 January 2010 4:16

I just have to tell u this, I, no shit, was disowned by my father too for the same reason...I have two sisters and a brother who have never met me,nor realize that I exsist. I am now 30, and my father hasn't seen me since I was 15. all I can say is that with time it does get easier. and you'll have become a stronger person