By New stay at home mom - 08/02/2019 04:00
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Raising a two year old IS a job.
Her name is new stay at home mom, jesus christ can you read?
Hey OP! Creative idea (if it’s nice out) could always try taking them to a park, bonus if you have a dog and it’s a dog park so they can play with the pups! It works well with the children I babysit!
Hand him some ear plugs and tell him to deal with it, or switch to dayshift. You shouldn’t be blamed for his child being loud.
so its his child when it is being loud? Maybe he has to take the job for the family to stay financially stable? He is the sole provider, but sure being a mom is the hardest job in the world....
As someone who works night shift and has children, YDI. Take them to a park for a few hours, go and visit people, go to the shops. My husband does an amazing job at letting me sleep after night shift
You are a saint! Thank you. Marriage is about working together, and if one partner works nights you need to help so that person can get the necessary sleep.
setting up an unreasonable situation then punishing partner for not doing the impossible is potentially an abusive behaviour. Take care.
Mine naps in the living room and expects our four year old to be quiet. Ain't gonna happen. I point out he has a perfectly good bedroom to nap in. If he's on the couch where our kid plays, the TV is, and the pets are, that's HIS problem. YOURS needs to grown the f*ck up and figure this out. If he can't realize he needs earplugs and/or a white noise machine, his problem.
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I'm nowhere near your situation, therefore I'm not going to attempt giving any form of advice nor blame, OP I'm just wishing the best for you. You are a strong person, you know, keep it up, friend.
My ex used to pull crap like that - one of the many reasons he is my ex. If he cant sleep through the extra noise of toddlers, then he has no business taking a night shift.