This is a Nearly FML. It’s an FML, nearly. It got positive votes from the users, by wasn’t approved by our team.

By Anonymous - 24/02/2019 20:00

Today, I found out from a coworker that the guy (another coworker) I've been going to for strictly sex is in a relationship with another girl and didn't tell me. Even when I have no expectations, I get screwed. FML
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For people who are saying she shouldn’t be upset that he’s with someone else, here are some things to consider: -She discovered he was in a RELATIONSHIP with another girl, making her an unknowing party to his cheating. -Because he didn’t disclose other sexual partners, her health is now potentially at risk without her consent. -If she considered him a friend as well as a sex partner, his dishonesty will likely cost her both of those relationships. If you’re having sex with someone, the kind and responsible thing to do is discuss boundaries, disclose other partners, and be considerate (but not subservient) of the other persons desires and needs. This is absolutely an FML for her.

Burle 17

Well of course you got screwed, wasn't that the point?

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mmmm, guy gets to have only sex with you, and still have another relationship and also have sex there? YDI for thinking the guy would be dumb enough to tell you "no". Now, ladies, I've learned this the hard way too, don't think that by just having sex with him, that he will eventually fall in love with you too, and the "no pressure" approach would work. No. It doesn't. You're the only one that will get hurt here, because men don't have feelings during sex, not like us.

No... you see you HAD an expectation of something more when clearly “sex only” was what was on offer. If you didn’t expect anything else, what’s the problem?

For God's sake!!!!! Why does everyone think that OP should be totally OK with being complicit in hurting another person? It sucks to hurt people, even when it was unintentional. OP, I am sorry about that, I hope the fall out from this is minimal. Pity this is an inter-colleague situation in ALL the ways possible.