You tried

By Anonymous - 10/06/2009 04:42 - United States

Today, I offered my seat to an elderly lady on the subway. She quietly refused. Minutes later on a sharp turn, she almost fell down on two people. As I was clearly the youngest in the disability seating section, everyone on the train turned and glared at me. FML
I agree, your life sucks 49 744
You deserved it 3 972

Same thing different taste

SHAME! SHAME! SHAME!

By Anonymous - 05/09/2025 22:00 - United Kingdom - London

Today, I got on a train and spotted a free seat. I rushed over, sat down and sighed with relief, only to realize people were looking at me. That’s when I saw the “Reserved for the elderly or disabled” sign…and the man with a cane standing in front of me. I immediately offered him the seat, but he just shook his head and said, “You’re gonna need it after this shaming.” FML
I agree, your life sucks 131
You deserved it 379

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I don't think you deserved this. I mean, she didn't want to sit down and you did offer up your seat. The other people around could have offered up their seat too.

That sucks, being glared at because someone else refused to accept your help. FYL

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Not, really your fault, but you could of insisted, and she is less inclined to take the seat if you are still sitting on it(Im assuming you stayed sitting =I), should of stood up =3 LOL at #20

Well that does suck...At least you tryed to do the right thing. And thats all that matter:) RI

Yeah, FYL. This is why I get out of my seat and stand up when something like this happens. Even if she refuses I'm still standing, so I don't look like a jerk if something goes wrong.

ZzXx_WrA_xXzZ 0

not an FML, she didn't even fall, and she refused the seat

I meant to press thumbs down. How do I take off the +1?

Capnstinkfoot 0

Old people are very proud & many dont like to impose. Next time stand up & say "no, really, take the seat you old crotch"

#16 oh i ear you, i have the exact same problems, my fiancé having really bad health, combined with a instable type 1 diabetes. The worse thing is that people not understanding are also my family who says "type 1 diabetes, so what ?". He does whishes he had cancer instead, people would be all "aww". However Asthma sucks. And op should have asked the lady quite loud "you don't want my seat yet ?" But it's true some persons have hard time sitting down and then standing up.

old people can be realy dense... One thing you can do is not offer them your seat, but stand up and refuse to sit down instead. Something about the seat going to waste gets them to just sit.

When you got off the subway, you should have limped really bad, and made them feel bad for thinking you didn't deserve to be there.