why now? 9 years? how was he even able to hide for that long? that puzzles me.

Link to a picture? That way we can tell if he was truthful or not.

I have to agree with #87. She doesn't deserve this, nor should people ask her about her appearance. You're not helping her at all! Dear, I'm sorry you had to put up with a selfish douche of a husband for 9 years. But it's better to cut your losses now and move on. Do whatever it takes to make you happy - get a makeover, go on a well-deserved vacation, etc. But don't give up on love - someone who truly loves you won't care for your appearance.

wow, that's low. tell him to grow some balls woman.

wow you should punch him in the face for that comment and get a divorce

Hey wait a second, is your name Leanne Rimes? If so lucky you, at least you have that steamy co star to console you! If not, sorry-- you were a beard, now you don't have to be. Things to look out for in your next relationship: 1. Avoid men whose eyebrows, and/or downstairs areas are sculpted more than yours 2. Does he have more hair care products than you? If so, move on 3. Borrowing your clothes, big red flag, it is not cute for a guy even! 4. Perfect shopping companion? Great chef? Smells good all the time. . .RUN AWAY Look at all the great women that have married gays, star jones, liza minelli, possibly leanne rimes, hence the joke I made at first, they aren't mannish, neither are you. Take him for all that he is worth, and remember my tips!

OMG im so sorry!!! Dont worry about it too much. Listen, my boyfriend who i dated for a long time and litterally said "I love you far beyond teenage lust, real love you know" just left me cus he was gay.... :( he got hard ons with me and i definately dont look like a man. If you need to talk with soomeone badly i know a woman who's husband, after 15 years of marriage and 3 kids, left cus he was gay.... I understand your pain

Gina8668 has a very good point... i made those mistakes. ugh -_-'''

That's really horrible. He should have manned up 9 years ago and told you straight up.

****!