By starley - 13/08/2010 09:11 - United States

Today, my husband of 3 years, who I have a 1 year old daughter with, told me he wants a divorce, but who knows, maybe in the future we can "date." FML
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hiitisbrooke 28

aha atleast he has to pay child support

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rkcraig53 0

make sure you get child support set up that will pay his fair share. this is why it's far more important that a woman try to find a person who us ready to get married and have a family. if OP got pregnant, then married because of the baby trap, even it it was by accident, the relationship was doomed, because the sperm supplier will feel like his freedom was taken, not given..

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mysoubriquet 3

Right... except in this case, where they were married at least a year before conceiving their child.

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lovestrong 0

He just wants a **** buddy. Make him pay child support. D u h h !

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rlerke 0

I'm not in any way supporting the op's husband, but why is it the first thing on a chicks mind just happens to be child support, fyl for assuming that the op is completly innocent.

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RedPillSucks 31

Well, It really doesn't matter whether OP is innocent or not. The father still has a responsibility for child support. Perhaps you're confusing that with alimony, which is a whole other matter.

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cristy91 33

Those little buggers are expensive! Not all women do that though, my aunt's husband ran off when her son was a year and she never asked him for a penny.

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tmmundy 17

I agree with #24....sum guys are just jerks. I really feel bad for the child for having to be in the middle if their drama. the child is what is important here, not if either of them are gonna be able to date or not.

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Josh_Factor 0

Well, there are two reasons: 1) You married a complete loser. If he can't keep a commitment for 3 years, perhaps he needs to look at fixing one relationship rather than jumping ship and screwing up another one. 2) You're not doing enough to keep him. Satisfying him sexually, maybe haven't worked off that pregnancy weight quick enough... there are a number of reasons that you may not be fulfilling your role as a wife. Having a baby isn't a guarantee for a guy to stay, not nowadays, so I sure hope that wasn't the reason, because if so, it obviously didn't work. Either way, yeah, FYL, and most likely YDI, whichever the reason.

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nerdsgetmehot 22

#58 I was nodding in agreement with your first point, and then I got to the second point and cringed.

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Miss_Piggy 4

agreed #63, She just had the baby what 3 months ago? it takes a bit longer than that to get back a body and that's if your a lucky one who can get the body back! lol. I feel for the child in this situation and for the mom who will most likely end-up raising this said child on her own with a father looking for a booty call... FYL

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PhillyFox 0

Staying pretty and skinny is NOT the role of a wife. If you really think that, don't get married. It can be a bonus yes, but you don't divorce someone because they can a little weight and can't seem to get it off fast enough. That's insane.

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cristy91 33

I don't think 58 is saying you have to be bone thin and perfect, but in all honesty, physical attraction is important in a relationship for both parties. As a woman, I wouldn't want my partner to gain a ton of weight. It would make me not want to be with him, and I'm sure guys feel the same. Some women (not all) do let themselves go and use having a child as an excuse for being a disaster. There's no need to be perfect, but still at least try to be appealing. That being said, I don't think that should be the only reason for divorce. They probably had other issues. FYL op, kids are hard, hopefully you have people to help you.

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Spastastic 6

If I had a serious boyfriend, who I had a real connection with, and he gained enough weight to be unattractive to me, I would try to help him lose weight so I found him attractive again, and support him through the process.

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starley 0

Yea my daughter is 1. I had her 3 months ago.

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starley 0

I would just love to know what you do for a living and what kind of shape you are in

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Josh_Factor 0

Thank you. I'm not shallow enough to expect every woman to lose everything super quick after a pregnancy. But as for myself, I have a hard time respecting people who can't respect themselves. There's a difference between having some pregnancy weight, and doubling your weight over several years after the baby. And where is people getting this 3 months from? The OP said the kid was a year old. Who starts counting after conception? I wouldn't be harsh about pregnancy weight with only 3 months... I'm basing my thought off it being a year later.

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starley 0

I would just love to know what you do for a living and what kind of shape you are in

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imright24 0

"I want a divorce. We can still **** though".

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lickmyjock 0

She's an idiot if she takes him back. Nice shirt.

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Xavi89 0

well if you need an pro hitman I'm your guy! it's Friday the 13th it's my birthday. I kill him for you for free! what do you say?

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sourgirl101 28

Happy Birthday!

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JINJANINJA 0

hmm nice, to the 1 year old daughter 'ive ****** your dad and your uncle, aren't I a great role model'

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XoXoSLY 0

WTF? What a douche bag!

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XoXoSLY 0

marriage is a joke now a days such a shame

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RedPillSucks 31

It's not a joke if the people involved take it seriously. If not, then that's a personal problem for the people involved, not an issue with the institution of marriage.

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