By mlove - 06/09/2010 08:35 - United States

Today, my future mother-in-law finally admitted that I'm "not the girl for her son" and that she will do anything to break us up. FML
I agree, your life sucks 39 431
You deserved it 2 906

Same thing different taste

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Pipistrello_fml 0

She's probably old. She'll be dead soon. Wait it out.

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surfergreeneyes 0

fml cus ur hott and i dont kno u nahh jk ur pretty hott tho ;P

melissamoshh 0

dude. do you hit on everyone on FML? haha

My two cents: You need to involve your fiancé. If he doesn't believe you, take it as a yellow flag and proceed with [extreme] caution. There's some truth to the whole "you marry the family" thing; differences on culture, including family culture, can cause big problems. It doesn't matter how independent you are from his family or they are from you right now. Even if you live continents away from her, life throws you curveballs and things can change quickly. He should probably sit down alone with Mom and fully hear her out. If he still wants to be with you (and he should), he should tell her "Thanks for your concern. I've heard you out but I disagree. Please respect my decision and butt out. If you don't, these will be the consequences...". Then hold them both to it. You need to be civil and respectful to her, but keeping your distance until she changes is a totally reasonable personal boundary issue. Good luck.

Absolutely true. You said what I wanted to say better than I could have said it.

well, yer old enough to make your own decisions...

chriszbeauty 0

my mother n law said the same thing. n she wasnt kidn. she tryd everything to break us up. even now aftr being married for5 yrs shes still doing it. her loss in the end tho cause my husband disownd her for a very long time caus of that and now her own grandkids dont even kno who she is. alil advice to u: dont let her get to u, try to ignore all the stupid sht she says. easier said than done i know but its better than letn her get to u and u loseing ur mind over her. i learnd that the hard way. good luck with her. hopefully u n ur husband to bs love is strong enuf to overcome anything that witch throws at u

tell your fiancé. if he doesn't choose u over his mommy, them walk away. this happened to my sister. my brother in law chose his wife. the grandchildren don't know the bitch and nobody cares.

rawrgoesthedinos_fml 0

hahahaha Monsters In Law ;D fyl xD

mona_is_here 10
skyeyez9 24

My mil was like that when her son and I were first married. My husband had a talk with her to knock her shit off and he wouldn't tolerate her hostility anymore. I hope your fiance sticks up for you. If not, I would suggest you leave him cause he will be a 'momma's boy' forever and your mil will meddle in your relationship.

Tell her back "You are the right mother-in-law for me either" and marry that guy to spike her, make sure you have a camera ready to snap her facial expression on your wedding day.