Money: Today, my fiancé and I had a fight over household expenses. He's...

By me - 02/03/2011 23:21 - United States

Today, my fiancé and I had a fight over household expenses. He's never had a job in his life, but this didn't stop him demanding that I get another full-time job to pay for video games and beer. FML

I agree, your life sucks 28 716

You deserved it 56 758

Winter: Snow and Funny News
Snuggle up and laugh with our winter stories, where snow isn't the only thing sliding around! More…

Previous FML Next FML

Same thing different taste

Kick the bum out

By SleeplessinNJ - 20/10/2020 17:02 - United States - Raritan

Today, after spending money on all the furniture and decor in our apartment, paying rent every month from my bank account, paying for all the groceries, and paying for all the dog supplies, my fiance asked why I don't keep saving thousands of dollars every month, while he pays for none of it. FML

I agree, your life sucks 1 169

You deserved it 467

Get off your ass

By Anonymous - 13/06/2022 22:00

Today, my boyfriend got mad at me because I wouldn't use $5,000 to build him a new gaming computer with my surrogate compensation, even though he basically refuses to get a job. FML

I agree, your life sucks 1 018

You deserved it 267

Gold digger

By Anonymous - 25/05/2023 21:00 - United States - Moscow

Today, I asked my boyfriend to help me with groceries, since the last of my money went to last week's groceries. His response was to start a fight, then tell me it's my fault my daughter acts the way she does, which is when he finally got me to break down and cry. I'm pregnant with his kid, and I also pay 90% of our bills. FML

I agree, your life sucks 1 008

You deserved it 1 000

Food fight

By hss - 30/05/2011 01:59 - United States

Today, my fiancé and I had a fight because he wouldn't let me get what I wanted to eat, even though it was my money. He said, "It's way too many calories. I'm supposed to help you lose weight." When I pointed out that I had given up a month ago, he looked at me and said, "Yeah, I can tell." FML

I agree, your life sucks 21 907

You deserved it 49 792

By dessy - 09/05/2016 21:37 - United States - San Diego

Today, my boyfriend asked me to pick up a few things from the store for him while he was at work. After picking up everything he asked for, I wasn't left with much money so I used $50 from my account. When he got home he then grumbled about me spending all of "his" money. FML

I agree, your life sucks 12 872

You deserved it 1 041

By Anonymous - 22/02/2010 16:38 - United States

Today, my dad screamed at me because I've been "spending too much money". He's been out of a job for 4 months and I've been giving him 300 dollars a month to help pay for bills... and his beer. FML

I agree, your life sucks 34 751

You deserved it 3 431

Equality

By Anonymous - 10/07/2023 10:00 - Germany

Today, my boyfriend keeps mentioning how well his new job pays, while I don’t have any income. He then got upset when I expected him to pay for the groceries I got on my way to his new place. What I bought was stuff I needed so I could cook for him, and for me to eat while I’m there, cleaning and fixing stuff for him. FML

I agree, your life sucks 690

You deserved it 313

Leech

By HadEnough - 28/02/2023 22:30 - India - Hyderabad

Today, I asked my husband to be a little more responsible, pick up after himself, and spend a little less. I earn more than he does, so it's usually my money that he splurges. He has gone on a non-stop tantrum for the past 5 hours, giving me the cold shoulder, and shouting at me. What have I gotten myself into? FML

I agree, your life sucks 990

You deserved it 205

Boozehounds

By Anonymous - 28/01/2021 17:01

Today, my fiancé refused to talk to me because I'm "an alcoholic". I only started drinking like this after we moved in together and he brought me alcohol every day, because he's an alcoholic. FML

I agree, your life sucks 753

You deserved it 368

By Anonymous - 16/10/2015 00:57 - United States - Wichita

Today, my husband finally admitted that he squandered the last three months of my share of the rent on booze. He then blamed me, demanded more money, asked for a divorce, and stormed out. When he returned he asked, "How am I the bad guy?" FML

I agree, your life sucks 28 664

You deserved it 2 282

MissHeart 0

Thursday 3 March 2011 1:05

you deserve better :/

Sparkiee93 3

Thursday 3 March 2011 1:07

Don't put up with that shit OP, dump his lazy ass!

Comments

Sleepy_Nerd 5

Friday 8 May 2015 18:47

you deserve better op, dump him

lynzwayisbae 4

Sunday 2 August 2015 23:21

why is everyone saying that the op deserves it since they are with a man who has never had a job, when if it was a woman who had never had a job, everything would be completely fine?? I am in NO way sticking up for the man, but what happened to equality?

shotgun_girl 17

Monday 29 February 2016 3:56

You assume that in a reversed situation people would not be on the mans side. I saw little evidence in the comments I read that they were advocating for a housewife w/no job situation. I agree she shouldn't marry someone who isn't gonna carry their weight and I would agree if the situation was reversed.

obeykaitlyn 25

Friday 19 August 2016 22:40

you need to kick his ass to the curb and find a real man that is already financially stable. you don't want to be responsible for a man baby

Christopher Jay Fugate 7

Wednesday 31 May 2017 21:09

What a ******* ****

Boomi 38

Thursday 20 July 2017 19:20

YOU for still being with him if he treats you like that, but damn! FYL too

sharond23 10

Thursday 4 January 2018 2:29

why are you planning on marrying a man whose never had a job in his life? are you nuts? ydi for being a door mat

lucasj23 11

Saturday 17 March 2018 5:50

do you seriously expect anyone to feel sorry for you? you're with a lazy ass who doesn't work and apparently that's ok with you. stop being such a doormat.

404wan 19

Friday 26 October 2018 10:07

this is exactly what you deserve. if you want change, ******* leave his useless ass. clearly he has no intention of ever contributing, and you plan to marry him? YDI YDI YDfuckingI all the way.