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By me - 02/03/2011 23:21 - United States

Today, my fiancé and I had a fight over household expenses. He's never had a job in his life, but this didn't stop him demanding that I get another full-time job to pay for video games and beer. FML

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Kick the bum out

By SleeplessinNJ - 20/10/2020 17:02 - United States - Raritan

Today, after spending money on all the furniture and decor in our apartment, paying rent every month from my bank account, paying for all the groceries, and paying for all the dog supplies, my fiance asked why I don't keep saving thousands of dollars every month, while he pays for none of it. FML

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Get off your ass

By Anonymous - 13/06/2022 22:00

Today, my boyfriend got mad at me because I wouldn't use $5,000 to build him a new gaming computer with my surrogate compensation, even though he basically refuses to get a job. FML

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Gold digger

By Anonymous - 25/05/2023 21:00 - United States - Moscow

Today, I asked my boyfriend to help me with groceries, since the last of my money went to last week's groceries. His response was to start a fight, then tell me it's my fault my daughter acts the way she does, which is when he finally got me to break down and cry. I'm pregnant with his kid, and I also pay 90% of our bills. FML

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Food fight

By hss - 30/05/2011 01:59 - United States

Today, my fiancé and I had a fight because he wouldn't let me get what I wanted to eat, even though it was my money. He said, "It's way too many calories. I'm supposed to help you lose weight." When I pointed out that I had given up a month ago, he looked at me and said, "Yeah, I can tell." FML

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By dessy - 09/05/2016 21:37 - United States - San Diego

Today, my boyfriend asked me to pick up a few things from the store for him while he was at work. After picking up everything he asked for, I wasn't left with much money so I used $50 from my account. When he got home he then grumbled about me spending all of "his" money. FML

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By Anonymous - 22/02/2010 16:38 - United States

Today, my dad screamed at me because I've been "spending too much money". He's been out of a job for 4 months and I've been giving him 300 dollars a month to help pay for bills... and his beer. FML

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Equality

By Anonymous - 10/07/2023 10:00 - Germany

Today, my boyfriend keeps mentioning how well his new job pays, while I don’t have any income. He then got upset when I expected him to pay for the groceries I got on my way to his new place. What I bought was stuff I needed so I could cook for him, and for me to eat while I’m there, cleaning and fixing stuff for him. FML

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Leech

By HadEnough - 28/02/2023 22:30 - India - Hyderabad

Today, I asked my husband to be a little more responsible, pick up after himself, and spend a little less. I earn more than he does, so it's usually my money that he splurges. He has gone on a non-stop tantrum for the past 5 hours, giving me the cold shoulder, and shouting at me. What have I gotten myself into? FML

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Boozehounds

By Anonymous - 28/01/2021 17:01

Today, my fiancé refused to talk to me because I'm "an alcoholic". I only started drinking like this after we moved in together and he brought me alcohol every day, because he's an alcoholic. FML

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You deserved it 368

By Anonymous - 16/10/2015 00:57 - United States - Wichita

Today, my husband finally admitted that he squandered the last three months of my share of the rent on booze. He then blamed me, demanded more money, asked for a divorce, and stormed out. When he returned he asked, "How am I the bad guy?" FML

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MissHeart 0

Thursday 3 March 2011 1:05

you deserve better :/

Sparkiee93 3

Thursday 3 March 2011 1:07

Don't put up with that shit OP, dump his lazy ass!

Comments

amh721 0

Friday 4 March 2011 1:30

This is what you get for agreeing to marry a total loser. Yes, he's the pathetic loser but you're sticking around for it so it really is up to you to put up with it.

princessbug 0

Friday 4 March 2011 2:24

leave him before it's too late! you deserve SO much better!

redneck2599 7

Friday 4 March 2011 2:39

don't marry him you dumb girl

Midnightfligh 0

Friday 4 March 2011 2:40

And your marrying him because?

MomOfThr33 3

Friday 4 March 2011 2:41

its ur fault for bein engaged to that dead beat.

misfit3332 15

Friday 4 March 2011 2:44

dump the lazy turd.

ilyskh 0

Friday 4 March 2011 2:44

are you really SO pathetic that you'd actually marry a "man" who's never had a job? you disgust me.

nene_says 0

Friday 4 March 2011 2:59

Don't waste your time marrying a child. Thas basically what he is. If you already have children then think about them first and make the decision to take care of them before him. If not then you should be ok to dump him and move on because there is no reason for a man to not have a job...