at least he's true to you and still love you for what you are now.

You deserve it for either letting yourself go in an otherwise good relationship or for sticking with an a** hole.

i feel bad for the poor boyfriend who is stuck with a fat woman. today, i realized that my girlfriend, who ate right and exercised when we got together, is now an obese, unattractive blob. apparently she only stayed in shape to "get" a man, and thinks now that we're together it's okay to spend her days eating potato chips on the couch. she accused me of being insensitive because i am not attracted to her repulsive, slug-like anatomy, and then whined about it on fml. she has yet to do a sit-up or anything else to rectify her revolting corpus. FML.

Seriously? I think I wudd dump his ass!;p

U dumped him right???

I don't really get the vitriol being flung at OP's bf. Sure he was tactless and kind of rude, but he was just being blunt about a very commonplace occurrence. How many people have let themselves go after a while and yet still enjoy a relationship? Or how many have watched their partners gain weight or lose hair over the years and not really cared because by that point there was love? Honestly speaking, if you met your gf at 20lbs heavier or your bf tubby and balding would you be as attracted at first glance?

Loose some weight man.

Im not attracted to fat men, I love my s/o for so many reasons other than his looks but if i wasn't attracted to him we never would have started dating. If you've gained an unreasonable amount of weight and your boyfriend isn't attracted to you but still loves you, i don't understand how you could be upset at him for that. I stay in shape, I look good and I expect the same. People you genuinely but are not attracted to are FRIENDS not boyfriends and girlfriend in my opinion. I will say that he was a little tactless but men can sometimes not realize exactly how sensitive someone is about their weight or whatever other flaws they have.

Well I hope you lost weight, became hot and dumped his sorry ass by now ;)

If you love someone you want them to be happy. Then ask yourself; are they happy with a fat girlfriend? It takes maybe an hour of exercise a day to keep thin. That and staying of the junkfood.