By whatever - 06/03/2019 02:00
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is this the kind of relationship you want your children to have someday? that’s how i decided to break up with my son’s father.
You get what you put up with & allow
This is why we marry functioning adults and not giant man-children. Time for a divorce. Don't waste time trying to salvage this.
I’m surprised no one has pointed out that he’s an abuser. Seek help from a therapist or an organization that can help you get out of this relationship. Likely he’s a master manipulator and convinces you to stay when you waiver. I wish you the best of luck.
And you stay with him why, exactly?
i left the same sort of man almost 18 months ago. And i never looked back. Best decision of my life.
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Make a choice.... divorce, or accept the realizatuon that nothing will ever change and you will be miserable for the rest of your life (or the rest of his if he dies first). And realize all the regret you will have for the rest of your life for all these wasted years. It may seem harsh, but it's true. YOU HAVE A CHOICE. And yes, I've been there. I was a stay at home mom in a similar situation. And I chose to end it, go back to school, and better my life. My children are better off for it, and I'm happy. You can do it.
This is when I say leave in the night with the kids and send him divorce papers