By "mellowyellowbaby" - 03/12/2018 00:02
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Not so sweet, after all. He should accept that you're over, and move on. Don't let him gaslight you, because you may end up doing something you regret. Oh, and bullet dodged.
You know what, really well done you. That is a really difficult thing to do and it sounds like you tried hard to do it sensitively and kindly. People do get broken up with. A lot. And he will be ok. He will manage..But you need to give him time to heal and if you can, take a break from him. He will get over it but he needs to go through the process of grieving for your relationship. But he should not be guilt tripping you or harassing you and it sounds like that is exactly what he's doing. if that happens then you might want to consider a restraining order. really well done OP, I'm proud of you. You did a really hard thing but it was the right decision.
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Not so sweet, after all. He should accept that you're over, and move on. Don't let him gaslight you, because you may end up doing something you regret. Oh, and bullet dodged.
You know what, really well done you. That is a really difficult thing to do and it sounds like you tried hard to do it sensitively and kindly. People do get broken up with. A lot. And he will be ok. He will manage..But you need to give him time to heal and if you can, take a break from him. He will get over it but he needs to go through the process of grieving for your relationship. But he should not be guilt tripping you or harassing you and it sounds like that is exactly what he's doing. if that happens then you might want to consider a restraining order. really well done OP, I'm proud of you. You did a really hard thing but it was the right decision.