I've been married with my wife for 25 years and we have both had our ups and downs. I'm not saying you guys have never been right but if it takes wine for you to want your partner then why be with him? That's a waste of a relationship. I could never even imagine if my wife gained a ton of weight I'd have to drink to be with her. She's mine because when no one else was there she was. When I was at my worst she never left. You need to seriously think about your marriage.

Those are rookie numbers, step it up!

Two bottles.

You're blaming your husband for your own issues? That's pretty low.

I'd rather gain a couple pounds than be a shallow, alcoholic, bitch of a wife. Maybe you need to reevaluate yourself.

It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship for both you and your husband. Maybe relationship therapy is an option?

Meh, stop wining so much.

Ku-Dos! That's quite a resistance you've built up!

Have you tried reverse psychology ? You can make him think he doesn't want to fix himself and then make him realize he does :)

divorce wouldn't sound so bad