Your user name is very telling. I’m assuming you don’t bother disciplining your children. Not only is this a turn-off for any potential partner, but you’re also setting your kids up for failure. Either get control or start saving for bail money.

Look into parenting classes for yourself and other programs in your community to assist you and your children with behaviors :)

Sounds like you need parenting classes, you all need therapy and to keep your romantic partners away from your precious goblins. Either your wife left or died (condolences) but YOU still have the responsibility to raise those kids properly. If it's ex-wife and she's poisoning the kids, you need to get back to court to stop it. The only reason kids turn feral is the parents dropping the ball. Pick it up and teach them how to play fair before it's too late.

YDI. "Kids will be kids" is such a cop out for lacklustre parenting. Step up and be an actual GD parent.

And do we think there's a pattern here...? Stop trying to get any relationships until you learn to be a parent to your crotch goblins. There's a difference between kids being kids and kids being hellspawn. If you realize the fact that your relationships are failing because of them, it's time to do something about it.