By SoniaLovesYou - 10/08/2012 12:18 - United States
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Wish I could say this WAS fake, but sadly it happened. Although it shouldn't matter, I will go ahead and mention that the guy is Mexican and most likely grew up in a culture that generally looks down on contraception; but it doesn't excuse what he did. Thanks to those of you expressing concern; I plan on taking the morning after pill and everything should be fine, but I am still intensely freaked over this. To those of you thinking I deserved it, I'll mention that I DID know the guy previous to this and quite liked him; this was a part of himself that he kept hidden until now. To those calling me a ****: I agree that sex has taken over our culture, especially with regard to young people, but having what I thought was safe sex with someone I knew and liked (and didn't realize was a psychopath!) does not mean that I have no self control. And Ichigoner, you're absolutely right - this guy and the "Be my baby's daddy!" girl would make a perfect couple, and probably end up making that octuplet mom look bad....
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that's technically rape, he violated the conditions under which you consented
I definitely can't tell the difference and I've had sex with very few people. Get plan B, and don't see him EVER. Also, so what if she had sex that early? I'm sure the rest of you have some serious sins to atone for.
Soo much victim blaming here. Its ho her fault the guy is a dick. This was a clear instance of Rape as others have already said. Here is what to do: 1. Get morning after if not on any other form of contraception 2. Go to a doctor right after to get proof that he ejaculated in you and get tested for STDs 3. Go to the police and report him for ******* rape because it was Rape. 4. Dont be ashamed because its not your fault someone else is a dick
ydi for sleeping with him on the second date.
Maybe woman should t be so quick to jump in bed with men. Second date? Wow. Good thing you knew him well enough hey
That's technically considered rape. Anytime the boundaries you set when you consent to sex are broken, it's considered rape. You consented to protected sex, and he, without your knowledge, had unprotected sex with you. It will hold up in court. I see it all the time.
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second date? Alright no judging. I recommend taking a morning pill and take pregnancy test. If its positive I'd say take abortion pills while its still just cells so its painless. Having that feeling that your family abandoned u is a terrible fate.
Let's hope he doesn't have HIV. I think you need to rush to the clinic & get tested. Also you need to speak to the police. That is considered rape as it was non consensual. I'm sorry this happened to you.
You deserve it. you don't sleep with someone in the second date, and without discussing birth control. it was a stupid move on your part for Not knowing the guy and his beliefs well enough before having sex with him. sorry but imo your stupid.
Maybe try to get to know the person you are going to sleep with beforehand? It might save you lots of problems...
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I don't think she deserves it. If she wants to have sex with someone on a second date that's her perogative. She could have known him before. If I were her I'd tell him about the herepes they could share along with their child.
Women shouldn't be judged more harshly than men for having any kind of sex. Period. Now I'm going to go prove my point and make a statement with my boyfriend by tying him up and branding him.