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jessybear777 - 15/02/2015 03:41 - United States - Branson

Today, my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. I'm extremely uncomfortable with eye contact, but he kept staring into my eyes the entire time. I had to sing the F.U.N. song from Spongebob in my head to stop myself having an anxiety attack. FML

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Anonymous - 26/02/2025 20:00 - Belgium - Ferrieres

Today, it was my first time with my new boyfriend. I told him what an awesome body he has. He seemed a little embarrassed and stuttered, "Uh, well, uh, you have nice eyes." Goodbye self esteem. FML

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Anonymous - 29/05/2020 08:00

Today, my boyfriend convinced me to "dirty talk" with him. I'd never done it before, so I figured I would give it a go. I ended up getting so excited that I had an anxiety attack. FML

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Uh oh

awkward - 26/07/2013 18:00 - United States - Yorba Linda

Today, my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. Instead of moaning like any normal person, he just kept saying stuff like "Uh-huh," "Not too bad," and "Yup" in a complete monotone. It was probably the most uncomfortable experience of my life. FML

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Nope

Anonymous - 15/01/2013 17:45 - United States

Today, I finally felt ready to have sex for the first time, with my boyfriend of nearly 8 months. When I told him, things became intimate and pants came off. He then looked at me and said, "Yeah, I can't do this." The rest of the night was spent in awkward silence. FML

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cockfist - 04/03/2014 22:41 - United Kingdom - Glasgow

Today, I spent my first night at my boyfriend's place, and my first night sleeping beside him. I woke up in the early hours to him holding me and muttering in his sleep something like "surprise fisting". I'm beyond terrified. FML

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Hopeless romantic - 16/08/2014 06:20 - Australia - Perth

Today, I began to sign "I love you" to my boyfriend from across the room. I ended up just poking myself in the eye. FML

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Disinterested

lily - 13/09/2020 14:01 - United States

Today, while making out with my boyfriend, I slightly opened my eyes during it and saw him with his eyes wide open, watching TV. FML

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inhaler -.- - 06/10/2013 05:20 - United States - Huntsville

Today, it was my first time having a make out session with my boyfriend. I got so nervous that a few minutes into it, I had to stop to take my inhaler. This happened twice more afterwards. FML

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bugger - 22/02/2015 17:31

Today, I looked my boyfriend in the eyes and said "I love y-" He cut me off with, "Babe, a blowjob's worth a thousand words" and held eye contact until I awkwardly excused myself. FML

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Anonymous - 24/08/2013 22:31 - Isle of Man - Douglas

Today, my boyfriend and I were getting intimate. As I started getting close to having my first ever orgasm, I got extremely short of breath and started hyperventilating. His reaction was to cover my mouth to shut me up. FML

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Boopycat 15

Sunday 15 February 2015 15:58

Could have just closed your eyes?

GOtllt 17

Sunday 15 February 2015 15:59

Try telling him that you don't like it, and he'll probably stop.,Maybe he thinks you enjoy it?

thes7274473 19

Monday 16 February 2015 4:34

F is for "friends" who do "stuff" together…

G3ICO 12

Monday 16 February 2015 6:38

I'm sorry but when I read the spongebob part I just couldn't resist laughing xD

sprints54 19

Monday 16 February 2015 7:06

The what song?

emopoe 12

Monday 16 February 2015 7:19

I don't currently have any anxiety or issues regarding eye contact, but someone staring into my eyes the whole time we get it on would make me uncomfortable also.

zykrithium 22

Monday 16 February 2015 7:24

If you're having sex with him, how is it that you're still uncomfortable with eye contact?

Whathewhatgaming 3

Monday 16 February 2015 8:16

F is for GETTING ****** IN THE ******!

berkeleyjake 13

Monday 16 February 2015 11:55

Do it doggy style

SynsterSaint 3

Monday 16 February 2015 12:25

F is for friends who do stuff together, U is for you and me, N is for anywhere anytime at all... Kinda relates I see why you chose it haha

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Monday 16 February 2015 15:21

too be honest, I had this problem, it's horrible and really uncomfortable, if you talk to him about it I'm sure he'll stop, that's what I did, everything will beokay, you just need to communicate.