Do not overreact

By Anonymous - 06/05/2026 17:00 - United States

Today, I found out that my grandma passed away the morning of my wedding a couple of days ago and my (soon-to-be ex) husband and so-called family all conspired to keep it a secret from me so as not to upset me. FML
I agree, your life sucks 111
You deserved it 190

Same thing different taste

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You’d rather they told you the morning of your wedding and ruined the day for you?

Right. Family tried to protect her but she decides to get mad at them instead. Bridezilla. She can still attend Gramma's funeral.

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You’d rather they told you the morning of your wedding and ruined the day for you?

Right. Family tried to protect her but she decides to get mad at them instead. Bridezilla. She can still attend Gramma's funeral.

It's very understandable that you are surprised and hurt, but they all probably genuinely thought it was best to let you enjoy your wedding day. If she had already passed away, they probably thought that you couldn't go visit to say goodbye, and wanted you to have a couple beautiful days before being heartbroken. If you really love him, I hope you don't actually follow through with divorcing your husband over this. They all probably meant well.

I think it's pretty safe to say grandma would want you to be happy and would be very disapointed that you broke off your now marriage over this.

Though if she does leave the husband, that will be a bullet dodged for him.