You act like sex appeal isn’t still something that is included in sexual attraction and part of a relationship. Can we finally start calling it for what it is? Rationalizing gluttony as a problem of not trying hard enough to find someone appealing is going to lead to an early dead end and extra-wide coffins. Stop acting like it’s morally OK to be unhealthy when the burden on the system of society and the costs are paramount with no positive upsides. I’m not sorry for saying this. People need to take charge of their health, however they have to, and stop demonizing people who think it’s not a good thing to weigh as much as a small cow.