By SoniaLovesYou - 10/08/2012 12:18 - United States
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Wish I could say this WAS fake, but sadly it happened. Although it shouldn't matter, I will go ahead and mention that the guy is Mexican and most likely grew up in a culture that generally looks down on contraception; but it doesn't excuse what he did. Thanks to those of you expressing concern; I plan on taking the morning after pill and everything should be fine, but I am still intensely freaked over this. To those of you thinking I deserved it, I'll mention that I DID know the guy previous to this and quite liked him; this was a part of himself that he kept hidden until now. To those calling me a ****: I agree that sex has taken over our culture, especially with regard to young people, but having what I thought was safe sex with someone I knew and liked (and didn't realize was a psychopath!) does not mean that I have no self control. And Ichigoner, you're absolutely right - this guy and the "Be my baby's daddy!" girl would make a perfect couple, and probably end up making that octuplet mom look bad....
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I'm Mexican and didn't grow up looking down on contraception. It could have nothing to do with his culture and he might just be an ass.
that's sexual assault. not only did he take off the condom without your consent, he attempted to impregnate you without your consent, and he may have given you an STD. he's a piece of garbage all around and I hope that you cut him off asap. may he be cursed with dry, flaccid dick and eternal lava *****.
FMLDerps
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What he did is literally classified as rape holy shit. I'm so sorry that happened to you
this is now considered rape in some countries as you consented to protected sex, not unprotected. I believe it's called stealthing or something like that
I'm sorry that happened to you, Op. I hope you're doing well. It is a good idea to be careful, but honestly this still could have happened even if you waited months to have sex with the guy. He is at fault, here. Not you. You did not consent to unprotected sex.
I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Unfortunately, stealthing is a real thing that happens. It's when a guy removes a condom right before sex without the consent of his partner.
To everyone shaming her, you are disgusting. It's not about how long they were dating or how long she knew him. It's about the fact that, by definition she was raped. You are shaming her for being raped.
This is called 'stealthing. You can techically go him for rape. He took the Condom off without your knowledge when you only consented to protected sex. It's a big issue in Australia atm
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You plan on taking the morning after pill? Over a week later? Keep on planning. Good job.
Yet, women are the ones who trap men ?? ok.
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I don't think she deserves it. If she wants to have sex with someone on a second date that's her perogative. She could have known him before. If I were her I'd tell him about the herepes they could share along with their child.
Women shouldn't be judged more harshly than men for having any kind of sex. Period. Now I'm going to go prove my point and make a statement with my boyfriend by tying him up and branding him.