By SoniaLovesYou - 10/08/2012 12:18 - United States
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Wish I could say this WAS fake, but sadly it happened. Although it shouldn't matter, I will go ahead and mention that the guy is Mexican and most likely grew up in a culture that generally looks down on contraception; but it doesn't excuse what he did. Thanks to those of you expressing concern; I plan on taking the morning after pill and everything should be fine, but I am still intensely freaked over this. To those of you thinking I deserved it, I'll mention that I DID know the guy previous to this and quite liked him; this was a part of himself that he kept hidden until now. To those calling me a ****: I agree that sex has taken over our culture, especially with regard to young people, but having what I thought was safe sex with someone I knew and liked (and didn't realize was a psychopath!) does not mean that I have no self control. And Ichigoner, you're absolutely right - this guy and the "Be my baby's daddy!" girl would make a perfect couple, and probably end up making that octuplet mom look bad....
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I would just take the morning after pill. His psychotic plan would be foiled.
Karen L
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Disgusting arrogant man. It doesn't matter if you want the girl to be your baby's mom, ask the girl if she wants to be your baby's mother first!
Thats technically rape since you didnt consent to unprotected sex, you consented only to protected sex. You can press charges.
This practice is called "Ghosting" and is legally considered a form of rape. You need to report him to the police.
what he did to you is a form of rape. You consented to sex knowing he would wear a condom. It became non-consensual sex as soon as he took the condom off. he is a scum bag and knew exactly what he was doing. if i could i would take you to the police to press charges myself. I am so sorry that this happened to you. Please also get tested for any STD that he may have passed onto you.
sounds like you need a plab B, if you know what i mean
K3719er
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Firstly OP, I dont mean this in anyway shape or form as making fun of you or putting you down or in any conceivable (lol) negative way - but how did you not notice the change in sensation between condom vs non condom? It my experiance and understanding (from various female partners and friends) that there is a VERY distinguishable difference, and unless he busted so fast there no time to notice, I feel like you should of been able to tell. Now, alcohol, inexperiance, every woman is different etc. aside - the guy is a grade A douche, who deserves an uppercut to the balls.
Cyza Tejano
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That’s just sad but I hope u and him don’t ever talk again
DraganBob
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FYI that can be considered sexual assault it is a chargeable crime. stealthily removes condom www.google.com/search?site=&source=hp&ei=kDKBWcLmBMG6mwG0-LigBw&q=secretly+taking+condom+off+during+sex+is+a+crime&oq=secretly+taking+condom+off+during+sex+is+a+crime&gs_l=mobile-gws-hp.12...5661.9235.0.9937.11.10.1.1.1.0.174.1098.4j6.10.0....0...1.1j4.64.mobile-gws-hp..0.4.456.3..0j5j41j0i131k1j0i22i30k1j33i22i29i30k1.Xw8rdkNAFY8
beaniehoarder
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Have you read about stealthing?
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I don't think she deserves it. If she wants to have sex with someone on a second date that's her perogative. She could have known him before. If I were her I'd tell him about the herepes they could share along with their child.
Women shouldn't be judged more harshly than men for having any kind of sex. Period. Now I'm going to go prove my point and make a statement with my boyfriend by tying him up and branding him.