By SoniaLovesYou - 10/08/2012 12:18 - United States

Spicy
Today, I hooked up with the guy I've been seeing. Apparently he doesn't believe in condoms and took it off without my knowing; I didn't realize until after. When I asked him in horror why he would do such a thing, he said "I love you. I want you to have my child." It had been our second date. FML
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Wish I could say this WAS fake, but sadly it happened. Although it shouldn't matter, I will go ahead and mention that the guy is Mexican and most likely grew up in a culture that generally looks down on contraception; but it doesn't excuse what he did. Thanks to those of you expressing concern; I plan on taking the morning after pill and everything should be fine, but I am still intensely freaked over this. To those of you thinking I deserved it, I'll mention that I DID know the guy previous to this and quite liked him; this was a part of himself that he kept hidden until now. To those calling me a ****: I agree that sex has taken over our culture, especially with regard to young people, but having what I thought was safe sex with someone I knew and liked (and didn't realize was a psychopath!) does not mean that I have no self control. And Ichigoner, you're absolutely right - this guy and the "Be my baby's daddy!" girl would make a perfect couple, and probably end up making that octuplet mom look bad....

Top comments

I don't think she deserves it. If she wants to have sex with someone on a second date that's her perogative. She could have known him before. If I were her I'd tell him about the herepes they could share along with their child.

Women shouldn't be judged more harshly than men for having any kind of sex. Period. Now I'm going to go prove my point and make a statement with my boyfriend by tying him up and branding him.

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readingrachel 9

Taking the condom off in the middle is considered rape by deception. You can take charges on this person. OP you consented to sex with a condom not sex without a condom.

daniel95 11

I made an account just to comment on this. Report him to the police. This is considered sexual assault/rape (depending on where you live. some jurisdictions make a distinction between the 2 and some dont) . Any part of sex that you do not consent to is sexual assault/rape. Someone removing a condom without telling you is deceiving you and you did not consent to having unprotected sex.

What the guy did is called "stealthing" and is considered rape in civilized western countries. File a police report and get that ****** arrested before he pulls that number on more girls and possibly spreads STDs or his genes. I cannot believe the many ydi comments. Sex on second date? So what! Every single one of these judgemental commenters should be banned from ever commenting on this site again.

I'm sorry, that's horrifying..I went through something like that...except the guy started crying after. lol. Ignore the assholes, they're just jealous they aren't getting any action.

I've never seen this many hidden comments in one fml before. Good job guys ?

Stealthing (secretly removing the condom in the middle of sex) should be a crime, and his reply was beyond creepy.

BlueJuly 3

Wow...that is horrible! What an a-hole! I had two condom-breaks in my life and we were both freaking out both times. But at least nobody did it on purpose. Get a morning after pill and kick the guy in the balls as hard as possible.

Umm, that's considered rape and should be treated as such.