By SoniaLovesYou - 10/08/2012 12:18 - United States
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Wish I could say this WAS fake, but sadly it happened. Although it shouldn't matter, I will go ahead and mention that the guy is Mexican and most likely grew up in a culture that generally looks down on contraception; but it doesn't excuse what he did. Thanks to those of you expressing concern; I plan on taking the morning after pill and everything should be fine, but I am still intensely freaked over this. To those of you thinking I deserved it, I'll mention that I DID know the guy previous to this and quite liked him; this was a part of himself that he kept hidden until now. To those calling me a ****: I agree that sex has taken over our culture, especially with regard to young people, but having what I thought was safe sex with someone I knew and liked (and didn't realize was a psychopath!) does not mean that I have no self control. And Ichigoner, you're absolutely right - this guy and the "Be my baby's daddy!" girl would make a perfect couple, and probably end up making that octuplet mom look bad....
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Anonymous182028
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Ugh something like this happened to me too with a Colombian guy - similar situation, both with regards to viewpoint of contraception I guess and also how well I knew him. It actually had more impact on me than I thought so I've been reading up on this after it happened to me, and apparently this is technically considered rape ('cause taking the condom off was without consent). In any case, it ******* sucks. Don't listen to the stupid people calling you a **** (even if you'd known him for an hour didn't give him the right to do this and would not have made you a ****). Make sure to get tested for STDs (also HIV!), since this idiot obviously can't be trusted. Take care!
Bringing back years old FMLs to make the app seem alive again?
her follow up says she's 20 and her profile says 28 so this is an 8 year old fml
I am so sorry OP. That is a disgusting and abhorrent practice. Hopefully you were able to get the morning after pill or were using a second form of contraception. Don't listen to the **** shamers in the comments. Sleeping with whoever you want isn't a crime regardless of how many dates you go on. The fact it is your partner did something morally wrong that you did not consent to. FYL indeed.
Stealthing.
fbreezy
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For all of you people calling her names etc grow up.. and also taking a condom off half way through sex without your knowledge is illegal and is called stealthing there is actually people going through court cases for this. So before ppl judge and blame one person why don't you do your research
joeyl2008
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It amazes me how judgemental and prude people on here are.
Report him. What he did to you is a form of "stealthing" and is a form of sexual assault. It's a disturbing trend that has been becoming more common, and social media has been making others aware of it; I found out about it on Facebook. I'm not certain what laws have passed regarding nonconsensual condom removal where you are but you don't have to accept what he did to you. Try a sexual assault hotline or centre and ask their advice on what steps to take. More info: https://www.buzzfeed.com/amphtml/briannasacks/stealthing-laws
Came here for the ****-shaming posts; was not disappointed. Also, the fact that the top comments are hidden for having too many negative votes is hilarious. I've never seen that before. Grow up, people.
JeepChick_917
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You deserve it for hooking up on the second date
Madelyn B
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I'm very sorry about what happened, NOBODY deserves that regardless of when you had sex, rape is rape no matter what. People should stop being concerned about the fact that she had sex on the second date and more worried about how he took advantage of the situation. This doesn't make her a ***** or ****, but a person who made a bad choice in men. Stop pitting blame on her when it was the crazy boyfriend who is at fault, I don't see anyone calling him a ***** or **** so why do those words just apply to OP? I hope everything works out for you OP in the end and that the boyfriend gets held accountable.
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I don't think she deserves it. If she wants to have sex with someone on a second date that's her perogative. She could have known him before. If I were her I'd tell him about the herepes they could share along with their child.
Women shouldn't be judged more harshly than men for having any kind of sex. Period. Now I'm going to go prove my point and make a statement with my boyfriend by tying him up and branding him.