this is an old thing to say/do but still very effective TALK TO HIM!!!!

It takes two to Tango... You're to blame too, you know. The fact that you say your husband broke the dry spell indicates that you blame the lack of sex on him, and maybe something is going wrong and you are not being supportive enough of him, or, even worse, you simply assume the man's responsible for making the first move. To top it off, you make him responsible for the quality of the sex. What is your job in that area? Do you just lay there still and wait for it to be over? Grow up, OP. And talk to your husband, relationships get destroyed because of these situations...

If you're the real god, this world just got a whole lot more depressing.

SPEAK. TO. THE. MAN. It doesn't get better by idling.

Horrible sex is worse. Waiting so long for disappointment is criminal.

The two of you need to sit down and talk about it. You need to understand each other and find ways you both can enjoy physical intimacy. The problem is only going to get worse if you keep silent.

Are you the one that said "It's....fine" in an earlier FML where a husband asked his wife about their sex life?

Have you talked about it or was your only reaction to post about how disappointing it was here? I mean, most guys generally are open to finding out how to get their girlfriends/wives into sex.

Maybe seek out a couples counselor, especially one who specializes in sex therapy. A professional can help y'all figure out what's going wrong in a safe, no judgement, honest place. And then give you real tools to help fix those issues. Good luck!

One word. Lube