what a dick

you let him decide? wow ydi!!!!

that's just ****** up. there is no way that I would have standee for that so I hope op for your sake you are a smart girl and shoved him out the door for good. what a douche! I mean three years is a long time to have sex but apparently he didn't wait. it's the emotional and intellectual part of the relationship that should matter not just the physical.

wow, your bf didn't want to have sex for 3 YEARS and you didn't know he was cheating on you? YDI. guys only don't want sex for extended periods of time if they're gay/not interested in you sexually/cheating, or some combination thereof

@59 What if they were only 12 when they first started dating. Time is irrelevant. You wait however long both parties decide. If sex is the primary reason you're going out with someone then you're not boyfriend/girlfriend, you're ****-buddies. If that's fine with both of you, then great. If only one person is interested in an actual relationship then FTOPL (**** the other persons life).

Wow #70. I see you've made good choices with guys... Perhaps you should hang around a better caliber of people. Then you would find that there are lots of guys out there who wont pressure you to have sex and are not gay, cheating, or not interested. These are guys who actually respect women. They're out there, and in greater numbers than you think. You just have to open your eyes and your mind.

47- agreed. I once had a boyfriend and a best friend but the best friend is now my boyfriend but still my best friend. :D

47, don't feel sorry for me. im good. believe that

so... no decision?? Round 2 then? Can I judge?

So...were you better?