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#28 i no it is but this stuff gets posted on here alot. this is a bit more extreme than others but still.

A guy a my highschool got raped at a party and reported it... They laughed at him!

Obvious troll is obvious.

judging from the way the op was written, i don't think you can blame him for this. it sounds like he was drugged

how am i a troll? yeah but if she was a crazy ex, he should have not allowed himself get into a situation where he could be drugged? he should have avoided her if she is so crazy, sounds like he wanted some sex and things got out of hand

WOW. I would put money on the fact that if this was a WOMAN who had been drugged and raped, you wouldn't be saying "well, ya must have led him on". Of course, all men are pigs who just wanna get laid and cant possibly be taken advantage of, RIIIIIIGHT.

wow way to blow things out of proportion, i'm not just sayin it because he's a man

Still it's unlikely he led her on. For all we know, she could have been stalking him, and when he was out somewhere and wasn't paying attention she slipped him something. I unfortunately know people that have done that.

Welcome back, Fem. :]

and if this girl really was crazy, would his friends allow her to drag him away somewhere, after, IF he was drugged it would be quite obvious from the state he'd be in.if she was so crazy that she would drug and rape someone there is noway his friends would let him go with her, unless maybe shes not a psycho as he states.

yes you are saying it just because he is a man...welcome back femtroll :) and WOW what logic (or lack thereof) so youre saying that he should have avoided putting anything in his mouth for fear of being possibly drugged and he should have realized once he was drugged he should have left his ex?

Soooo she can't slip something in a drink or randomly attack him with a chloroform soaked rag without him having led her on? What?! Men can be raped just as women can. Grow up feminist19, grow up.

a chloroform soaked rag? and where would this have happened, no u ignored my point, there are two scenarios, a) he meet her on his own and she drugged him, why did u meet her alone if shes so crazy. B) he met her while out with friends, if shes so crazy why would his friends let him go with her given the state he would be in from "being drugged" also at no point does the op say he was drugged, thats an assumption. and hi intoxi also finally if she did drug him and rape him shes a scumbag, but i'm just sayin maybe he played a part

lmao im almost POSITIVE if it was a woman who posted this shit the femenists of the world would swarm the comments with "awww poor you" and no ******* femenist would think twice about her leading the man "on"

fem, im with the others on this one. i doubt very much if it were the other way around, that you'd be the one saying "well maybe SHE led him on." consider that. how many times have you heard a rape story (man raping a woman) and said that the victim probably led him on?? im all for women's rights but sometimes it gets a little hypocritical.

whos to say what anyone would be saying if the genders were reversed, everyone is just focusing on what if it was a woman instead of looking at this particular case, does nobody agree with any of my points? perhaps i should keep quiet

SHE'S BACK! Excellent. I love a good laugh before bedtime.

Fem19, definitely, definitely keep quiet.

i knew someone would come back with that, of course you have nothing else to say, i bet you thought that would be a really funny comment and everyone would laugh. idiot

So maybe the girl getting raped in an alley shouldn't be walking through it at 2 am wearing a miniskirt. Amirite?

thats sort of a different debate, but to a degree I agree with you, people need to look after themselves

@feminist: I'll accept your commentary then, given your response to my scenario :P

since you obviously don't know what it's like from the male perspective, i'll just spell this out for you: there is no way to hide or get away from an ex-girlfriend who is crazy enough to do something like this (if it's at all real). your comments and tone make me wonder if you've ever had any sex that was voluntary.

is your comment implying that i have been raped, is that meant to be funny?

Do you know the quote "Give someone an inch and he will take a mile?" That's what these new age feminists are all about. They don't know what real feminists fought for an won for all women. Feminist19's post is no different then any of the other examples of bigotry out there currently. If someone doesn't agree with you, it's easier to call them a racist, sexist, ageist, etc. then to actually confront the issue at hand, just as feminist19 is doing here. To her, it doesn't matter how bat-shit crazy this woman is, it was the man's fault for putting himself in a situation where something could happen. Give it up, you're pathetically stupid feminist19. If a woman was in the same situation, you would have jumped all over it as "just another example of why men are pigs."

well heres my respons person who ppl call troll. maybe he wasnt with his friends and maybe he was alone. true she couldnt drag him there so she would have to stuff in in the car and give him some viagra. she have to use a pill or something like that for the K.O. part. maybe she used the rag and thing trick.

Feminist19's post is no different then any of the other examples of bigotry out there currently. If someone doesn't agree with you, it's easier to call them a racist, sexist, ageist, etc. then to actually confront the issue at hand, just as feminist19 is doing here. Feminist19's post is no different then any of the other examples of bigotry out there currently. If someone doesn't agree with you, it's easier to call them a racist, sexist, ageist, etc. then to actually confront the issue at hand, just as feminist19 is doing here. Give it up, you're pathetically stupid feminist19. If a woman was in the same situation, you would have jumped all over it as "just another example of why men are pigs wow, hypocrite. if someone doesnt agree with you its easier to call them something, you called me pathetically stupid. and not confronting the issue, you didnt say anything about the op's scenario, just created a new one where a woman is raped. well done

Soo feminist, what if she broke into his house while he was sleeping and drugged him? does he still deserve it?

not every comment is coming from a feminists viewpoint, i am a human being as well not just a feminist

or what if she said she wanted to return a few things, then she knocked him out and drugged him, does he still deserve it? what if he was ambushed on the streets? what if she broke into his house? you really dont think at all do you

all these what ifs, would you ever **** off, just talk about the issue at hand and stop throwing new scenarios around

and why would she knock him out and then drug him, you really don't think do you

Feminist, (going back to when you first replied to my comment) I never said he was out with friends. I said he was out. He could have been out by himself. If he's not out with friends, his friends aren't going to protect him. And how would a stranger know to protect him. If he was all drugged and weird and she pretended to be his girlfriend, it probably wouldn't look all that suspicious.

What do you mean, stop with the what ifs? Isn't that what you gave us in the first place when you said the following: "a chloroform soaked rag? and where would this have happened, no u ignored my point, there are two scenarios, a) he meet her on his own and she drugged him, why did u meet her alone if shes so crazy. B) he met her while out with friends, if shes so crazy why would his friends let him go with her given the state he would be in from 'being drugged'" The face that more people are giving what ifs simply means that they recognize more than two possible scenarios.

boatkicker, who goes out on there own? and what are the chances of himing goin out on his own and just bumoing into his ex, unless he went there intentionally

I go out on my own. Various friends of mine go out on their own. My fiance goes out on his own. My parents sometimes go out on their own. What are the chances of him bumping into his ex? Did you miss the part in my first post that said she might have been stalking him? Besides that, people tend to be creatures of habit. They probably still go to some of the same places.

this is off topic but please humour me, why do you go out on your own?

Ihatestupidppl: I jst have 2 say: - First, I love your user name (I was going 2 hav a sim one, but instead went w/ more of a possitive note). I just wish ppl would think 1st & put themselves in the place of others! - & Second, Your reply to the dipshits that think anybody else (esp a man can't get raped - is right on the nose!! "Feminist" obv. needs a reality check! & the others tht think OP is lying - wake up! - I, myself am a woman who cannot sleep well at night sometimes - due to a painful illness. 2 yrs ago, my 78 yr old best friend (at the time) took adv. of knowing I took a sleeping pill to finally get some rest - I managed the apartments that he owned - so obv. he had a key - I trusted him - but still - I woke up to him sexually violating me - I tried to fight him off - but he was too strong & I was too out of it frm the meds. Nobody ever knows the whole story about these things - this FML is not about me - I'm jst trying 2 make a pt tht these things can happen 2 anybody - & frm ANYBODY! - My X-friend did not drug me (I was the 1 who did)! - & even tho the OPs was X was CRAZY there is def more to his story - she may have had him drugged & then approached him 2 pretend to help him out (him thinkin he got too drunk - his friends may not have even been around??? - I just wish that the ding-a-lungs replying would open their eyes to all of the possibilities!! - This guy def deserves a pat on the back for even admitting - OP, just stay away from craziness & take action so that she doesn't do it again!!!!!

a 78 year old man overpowered you? without his wheel chair and frame?

I'm pretty sure he's implying you do the raping, and that with the way you talk no one would want to voluntarily have sex with you.

She did drug him...look at his username.

~Because no one else felt like going with me and I'm sick of hanging around the house. ~Because I need to buy a gift for someone, and don't like others to know about surprises. ~Because I need some time by myself, but people wont leave me alone. ~Because if I want a donut from the shop up the street, I'd feel silly calling someone up and saying "hey lets get donuts!" I'm quite capable of going on my own. ~Because it's easier to meet new people when you aren't too busy talking to people you already know and more recently, because I just moved 800 miles away from my family and friends and my fiance works 8 hour days.

i'm talking about at night to bars and clubs, i thought thats what we were talking about, 8 hour days? so does everyone, what sort of hours do u work

OP man that really sucks! Hope she's not pregnant. If she is file a report so she can't say it was consentual (sp sorry) and pin you with child support etc.. I would have her test to see if it's actually yours. She's a real nutter. Feminist19 not to pick on you or anything but I agree with everyone else. Also I do mostly everything by myself. Walks. Riding the bus. Shopping. Who has friends that do EVERYTHING together 24/7? Nobody does. Not even you. Sure there would be other people around but nobody really pays attention to anyone else unless it involves them somehow. She could have slipped him anything when he was in a coffee shop or something. We don't know.

i didnt mean it like that, i thought we were talking about nights out

With the amount of qualifiers you're adding here, it must be impossible for anyone to be raped, ever. That's it, close the books, no one's been raped.

@feminist19, why won't you just admit that you're at fault here? The FML cleary tells that hes was sexually abused by the way it is written and the fact that he was drugged or very intoxicated indicated by OPs name, "drugged_on_arrival". Also I too go out alot on my own, mainly because my friends are embarrasing idiots whom I wish not too be seen with when I try too hit on cute girls on bars and such.

My second to last point is still valid at clubs "It is easier to meet people when you aren't busy talking with people you already know" And, I just moved 800 miles, and have not yet found a job. The job that I was supposed to have, however, was 7 days a week, 6 hour shifts.

sorry to hear that boatkicker, now i feel like a jerk. you'll find something

So do you accept your first comment is invalid?

You know what... i am a 22 yr old girl, and i think feminists are honestly some of the stupidest ******* people ever. It is EMBARRASSING and i wish there was some way we could prevent them from being able to speak. They never have anything of value to say, ever... if there were some uncharted island we could ship them off to, I would be ALLLLL for it. And how dare, HOW DARE you, even accuse someone of lying about rape, or MOCK them? making your snide little comment... ugh. There are no words. You've got some very bad shit coming at you, my dear... what goes around comes around. One day you are going to find yourself at the hands of some crazy person, and we'll see how much you hold to all your beliefs about "leading the rapist on" and "everyone needs to take care of themselves." And NO ONE is going to have any sympathy for your sorry ass.

Finally a lady with some sense. We do the same as the brittish did too the criminals, send them too australia!

your just a dumb bitch i hate people like you feminist19 you try to earn respect for women but really you make men disrespect them

whats wrong with saying people should take care of themselves, i'd say your not a 22 year old girl, your probably a man, given how ridiculous and unneccesary that comment was Also HOW DARE I? **** OFF

Feminist, do you know how easy it is to slip a drug into somebody's drink? For all we know, she could have had the bartender himself slip it in. We don't know HOW it happened. He MAY be somewhat at fault, or it could have been completely out of his hands.

feminist 19 is obviously one of those people who dont know when to stop digging their holes, as for the whole going out and the op's friends not stopping him situation, i dont know about where he is but over here, it's freshers week, all of his friends may be new, (if indeed he is a new student- just an idea) so they wouldn't have known to stop him they'd have just thought, duuuuuuude go on my son!

omgznoes what are you on about now

You're a trooper, but your fighting a losing (but nevertheless entertaining) battle. i was simply trying to add a possible and altogether plausible reason for why his friends wouldn't stop him from going off with some chick. Christ, i may be wrong, like i said it was an ideal.

the only reason i may be losing is coz here people come on and say something to me and then disappear so when i reply i dont get any credit for proving them wrong and by that time someone else is comin on giving out to me, life is tough

I wish fuckbuckets like "feminist19" wouldn't call themselves feminists, because they aren't. They really really aren't. She is latching onto the loosest tenets of the feminist ideals and then either not realizing her own ignorance, or just trying to slap a PC label on herself to look more acceptable. True feminism is not about hating, subjugating or looking for the worst in men, but rather for equality and fair treatment for both genders at least and all people in general. Now, under no circumstances is a rape victim truly responsible for their attacker's actions. Saying their behavior led the rapist on is akin to saying that because the victim has a pituitary and thyroid gland that their hormones were the provocation for the attack. As far as what this man should do, it's rather simple, but needs to be done soon. Go to a hospital or doctor and get a tox screen to prove you were drugged, and I hope to god you didin't shower because they can do DNA testing on the mucus residue on your penis to prove it was her. Then take that evidence and your testimony to a police station and report her ASAP. One you have done this, solicit a court order to relieve you of all parental responsibility should she choose to keep the child. And quite obviously, get a restraining order against her. In response to myself, I'd like to say: SMART TROLL IS SMART.

exactly green abatross, the one thing i learnt in sociology is that feminism is about equality not hatred, what "femist"19 has been saying is complete hypocrosy, women get raped, which is sick, and men get raped which is also sick. beleive it or not men dont always want sex, we know how to say no, but we cant say no if a woman has said " hey does this smell of cloroform to you?"

You know I think I understand fem's perspective. If a man is walking around a random street alone, he DESERVES to be kidnapped/drugged/knocked out. If a man breaks up with ANY woman, he deserves what's coming to him even if the girlfriend is criminally insane. If a man wants to go clubbing alone at night, he should be prepared because women have the RIGHT to find him and rape him. If a man doesn't want to consent to sex, it doesn't matter. A new law was passed that their consent isn't required.

Sarcasm, right? (I hope! I'm always a bit nervous when i see this kind of stuff. There are far too many nutcases on the internet for me to assume anything ridiculous is sarcasm. haha)

@ Feminist19: "...Ho (Ho) You'z a Ho, (Ho) You'z a Ho, I said that you'z a Ho (Ho) You'z a Ho, (Ho) You'z a Ho, (Ho) You'z a Ho, I said that you'z a Ho (Ho)..." I don't mind most feminists, but you, leave just.... leave

http://www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=femnazi2 pretty much sums up feminists..

YES (for canucksrule)

How the **** do you even go about saying that it's ANYONE's fault for being sexually abused? honestly, what the ****! I tolerated your crap that I was reading until I got to you actually mocking someone for being sexually abused by an old man. What kind of bitch does that? You talk about seeing things from a feminist point of view, but try and see it from at least a human point of view. This woman drugged him, sexually abused him, and now it sounds like that if he can't prove that she did anything to him, he now has to pay child support for a child that he never even wanted. She just ****** up both his life and the future of the child that she's going to have. I swear to god, I hope you are a mantroll and not really this stupid. If not, you belong in some kind of psychopathic ward, because you pretty much just said that this guy deserves to be drugged, kidnapped in his sleep, be sexually abused by some woman that he doesn't like and have a baby with her that he's either going to have to pay child support for, abort, live with the guilt of being a suckish dad, or be stuck in a family with a crazy psychopath, because he may possible have been spending time by himself. You don't understand at all why that is crazy? Get off the internet, and possibly the face of the earth, feminist. You sound like a pre-pubescent twelve-year old girl.

maybe he didnt go out with friends do you really think hes gonna be with friends 24/7? guys and girls have diffrent friendship boundaries....

Situation where you can be drugged = having a drink at the bar she followed you to.

They're showing you scenarios where you are WRONG because you cannot accept that you are dead WRONG

situation where you can be drugged = any situation that you aren't paying close attention to.

Why did I get buried? I was just saying hello. God.

Feminist, let it go. I hate to see one person against EVERYONE else. Besides, the way I see it, he probably went to a bar alone, as men tend to do, she passed by. He ducked down and popped his collar. She just said hi, and covertly drugged him, then sat far away. He did three cheers in his head for his "good fortune" and took a huge gulp of his drink. He gets drowsy and his stalker pretends to be a good Samaritan and takes him to her car. He can't cry for help, and he is taken back to her lair where the magic begins. Even if I'm wrong, popular opinion is a bitch. This is bigger than all of us, Feminist.

Holy crap... this is what you call a thread that goes on tooooooooooooo long. All of you dumbasses, especially those with their long-winded anti-feminist speeches, need to calm the **** down. Good job feeding the troll who isn't actually a girl and not actually a feminist. They're actually probably a 14 or 15 year old guy with too much time on their hands. Feminist19, and all the retards replying to him, need to get a DAMN life.

Intoxicunt: Because you were saying hello to feminist19, whom almost everyone hates.

were u there?

aye!

I don't get along with Feminist19 either. I am the main reason she was banned for a week. I reported her BEFORE we decided to agree to disagree and ignore each other. So I felt the least I could do is say hello. We had quite the argument going at one time. We were practically married. Hahaha.

The vehement insistence suggests that perhaps she is the crazy ex in question.

@feminist 1) Who goes out alone....umm, lots of people, do you take a friend with you when you go shopping for wall paper just in case you run into an ex? 2) How would it be hard to run into an ex...most people date someone near them, so unless he moved after the breakup, odds are he lives in the same general area 3) Dont you think feminism is a little pointless now? Yes you will always have some people who hate other races, genders, etc, but thats a minority. You have women CEOs, women generals, women astronaut, for craps sake, what more can change? 4) This is the real important part. I am a guy. I have women want to sleep with me who I do not want to sleep with. This is how the world works. Not every guy wants to nail anything he can, and not every girl has no desire to have sex. If the OP did want sex he can find it some other places then with his crazy ex 5) Not drugged? You dont wake up naked and disoriented unless you are (a) drugged (b) given a cup of moonshine and slam it without being able to tell what you drank.

wow all of that was funny

did you not read his name, feminist19? it says DRUGGED_on_arrival obviously was drugged.

... Wow okay Feminist.. Simple as this, he drove/walk/ whatever, to her house to get something he forgot or that she needed to give him.. She either simple knocks his ass out and then drugs him, or gets him a drink with something in it.. But you say why he take it if she's crazy.. Who said he knew she was crazy? He didn't.. So stop making assumptions.. And you also asked why would she do it? WELL ******* DUH? She's crazy! She wants to believe that they aren't over I guess? Maybe she wanted to get ******? You're an idiot.. And you should give up, right nao:)

Your one of the dumbest commenters i have ever met on this site. Seriously did you bother at all to read the tone cast by the rest of the commentors? stupid *****

intoxicunt, i wasnt banned because of you reporting me, which was was quite sneaky and cowardly of you by the way, i was banned for saying i thought two ridiculous fml's were fake and not giving any other comment on why i thought they were fake, i'm new to this fml thing, so i didnt realise i was in breach of the rules and didnt see my warning for the first one in my email account before i said the second one was fake.thats why i was banned, i've learnt my lesson.

Feminist are you like 14?..... you just don't seem like u have quite to much experience.... with life....

@feminist19 You shouldn't comment on what you don't understand little girl. Did you see all those comments above that were proving you wrong? Y'know, the ones that didn't just disappear? Jesus, I mean seriously, you've got to be in an uptight, private, religious middle school to be as bigoted as you are. Not just here, many other fml's. Please...read an actual science book and get out.

Fem Plenty of people "go out on their own", there is no reason why you can't "go out" by yourself. It's a simple matter of being smart. Don't accept drinks from people you don't know, and be aware of your surroundings.

Oh dear god this bitch is back? I thought she was banned!! And feminist, why do you always take the FML and dramatically twist it around so it looks like the OP deserved it. You make women seem like weaklings who can't control their actions. With you, the woman is never at fault, no matter how crazy the situation is. You are saying that if he didn't lead her on, she wouldn't have drugged him(i'm assuming that's what happened to him). Do you thrive on the many insults you receive when people reply to your ignorant, irrational comments, or is it just a coincidence that every comment you post creates a controversy?

i love you

Feminazi19, you don't know what you're talking about. Accept it.

this is a long ass post and guys lay off fem I may not agree but you don't need to shoot her down like a grammar Nazi witha gangster

#100 to meet chicks she is an ex after all

I seriously doubt he was drugged. assuming they are both average weight, she must have been super woman to lift him. he prob drank so much he blacked out after sex and forgot what he said and did.

He did play a part in it, he got raped

But he'll get pregnant lol.

@26 HAHAHHAHA!!!! I just choked on the water I was drinking when I read this!

lol this rly mad me laugh

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