Moving on fast

By Anonymous - 09/01/2026 03:00

Today, my dad's new girlfriend, who he met in Vegas, flies in. My mother is still alive in a dementia care facility. I don't know how to feel about this. FML
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I have a similar situation. Don’t judge. People are people. My dad has essentially been looking after my mom’s body for the past few years as there is nothing left of her due to dementia. He’s connected with an old girlfriend from over 50 years ago. He feels incredibly guilty about it, but now has someone to confide in. I don’t hold it against him. I cannot imagine how hard it must be to take care of the shell of the person you love, and feel totally alone. Give your dad some slack.

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I have a similar situation. Don’t judge. People are people. My dad has essentially been looking after my mom’s body for the past few years as there is nothing left of her due to dementia. He’s connected with an old girlfriend from over 50 years ago. He feels incredibly guilty about it, but now has someone to confide in. I don’t hold it against him. I cannot imagine how hard it must be to take care of the shell of the person you love, and feel totally alone. Give your dad some slack.

I'm sorry, OP, this must be so difficult. Does she know about your mother?

How long has he known her? Is she a golddigger?