How about you dont be gutless and TELL her father that you are going to marry his daughter.... Dont be a pussy about it, if he doesnt give you his blessing, then tell him to **** off and do it anyway. Your girl wouldve respected you more for doing so....

Well... that does suck but I say you are better off without her if this is how she acts about anything. Getting married is a huge step and is never a guaranteed outcome of any relationship no matter how long you are with someone. I think you will be much happier with someone who doesn’t do such childish things.

just explain that to her, she'll take u back. forget the dad

Just tell her that. At least now you know that she'd say yes!

You're a chauvinist pig, OP. You're not marrying your girlfriend's dad, you're marrying *her.* She is the one making this decision, so you should have asked her first.

your ex is a b* tch if she EXPECTS you to propose in under 2 years- this is a shining example of why divorce rate is over half

well that obviously makes sense: breaking up with someone if you want to marry them. If you still want her after she's been so selfish and needy, then I'm sure a simple explanation will suffice. However, I am reading this about 2 years after OP first posted so it should have blown over by now.

That's really sad. I bet her dad was relieved.

You need daddys blessing? Wow. Marry her anyway if you love her!

Damn, hopefully y'all got back together. Cause that sucks for you if y'all didn't.