By Megan Caird - 13/10/2018 12:22 - United States - Asbury Park
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Lucky O'Guin
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Then tell him that BEFORE you go visit. If he loves you enough that he wants to marry you, waiting until you are ready should not be an issue.
Praying for you and whatever you decide on.
Please give another update!
Megan Caird
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He and I are still together, and are expecting a daughter. :)
Megan Caird
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Hello everyone! I have received numerous messages asking for an update. Sam and I are still together, and are expecting our first child. The break up I planned turned into a make up. FML?
Well geez, I hope it’s not an FML, otherwise you’re not happy with this final outcome then are you?
so don't go visit him. no need to embarrass him in front of family and friends.
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I think the kindest thing to do is to end it before you visit him. It might be wrong for you to avoid a face-to-face break-up, but if you can't see yourself marrying the guy, do you really want to turn up at the airport or wherever, only for him to ambush you with the proposal the second you arrive? And what would you do if you rejected him at the start of your visit? Hang out as friends with a guy you just crushed emotionally? Not to mention be around his family and friends, who will hate you.
Better to be hated for breaking it off Now then getting into something that’s doomed to fail seeing you didn’t want it in the first place