Don't stop reading at his borderline-sexist start. If you're going to respond to someone, take the time to hear everything they have to say and understand what they're meaning. Anyway, I agree that was pretty uncalled for, pimpin. Not all chicks are like that; I am most certainly not. However, I can indeed point out quite a few who are... But, guys can be like that too. A lot of FMLs around here are usually chicks and their cheating boyfriends, you know. And, of course, there are the occasional guys cheating on their boyfriends and ... well, I don't know if I can recall a girl cheating on her girlfriend (I only remember girls liking a girl but the girl is straight or something). So it's not exactly a general rule on a single gender, it's more a group of people instead. I just really don't understand the point of cheating, period. If you don't like who you are with, break up with them. It's not that hard, and you don't have to weasel and lie out of the time they are foolishly wanting to spend with you. Cheating pisses me off... I had a friend who cheated on her boyfriend, and I wanted to punch her lights out (I left her house instead). Especially since, yeah, like you said, she felt really ******* proud of herself... The kind of people you described, be they dudes or chicks, are usually exactly like that. It's sickening, really... Also had a guy friend who did it to his girlfriend, and I was just absolutely disgusted by it. And... then I had a guy friend whose girlfriend cheated on him... then the idiot went back! He disgusted me almost as much. You're right, weak guys (and weak girls too) are some really pathetic losers.... Anyway, moving on. I agree with you that a person needs to not put up with bullshit from their partner like that. Whether it's flirting, cheating, or any of the sorts, they call it a relationship, a partnership, for a REASON. You are for each other. Don't like it? Leave, but don't pull dick stunts like flirting with other people WHILE YOUR DATE IS WITH YOU. Now, you also shouldn't be overbearingly controlling of your partner either, of course, like you said. I agree that you shouldn't put up with bullshit, but I do not agree that you should not have any trust at all in your partner ("keep her in check") - that kind of stuff leads to the break-ups over stupid misunderstandings (like the dumb broads who slap their guys because they saw them talking to another girl). And I do agree you should never resort to physical violence; talking and understanding the problems help for a healthy relationship, or the end of a potentially harmful one. I also agree that... if the chick won't listen, you start pulling the same crap on her. THEN she'll listen... But I think I will agree that as a real general rule, chicks do not like completely weak guys (cowards, won't stand up for themselves, let their girls do whatever they want, etc) and that they do not like abusive guys either. Those kinds of guys are definitely going to drive their women away... Not sure about men lol

That sucks!!! What a *****!! What did you do after that??

Man who cares, if she is such a ***** do you really want to date her? The moment you see your girl in bed with another dude you die a little inside and that part that died is your love for the ***** because she not the girl you know anymore. So just **** her mom her sister and her best friend then get a little pay back and steal her wallet then you'd be done :D

Long distance relationships can be wonderful. When my bf was 1/2 way across the country I would have loved a surprise visit. OP deserves a whole lot of gratitude, not his gf cheating and then people saying YDI.

I submitted pretty much the same FML but it never got published. I feel your pain, man. I'm very sorry.

Man sorry about your gf... but... This FML is awesomely written! FYL :(

ydi for driving 20 hours to see ur gf. whipped much?

...priceless?.....

Who knows? This FML might be inspired by a movie one day...

Nicely written! FYL indeed.