Oh, so NOW you're listening

By Anonymous - 08/11/2015 05:28 - United States - Lewes

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Today, the only way I could get my boyfriend to come over for a serious discussion was to heavily imply I wanted to talk about having a threesome. In actual fact, I just wanted to break up with him face-to-face, because he barely acknowledges my existence unless he's horny. FML
I agree, your life sucks 27 683
You deserved it 2 695

Same thing different taste

Top comments

If people would just be clear about what they want so many situations like this could be avoided. Aka if he just wants sex and doesn't care for a relationship he should have been straight up about it instead of leading her on emotionally.

Good for you OP! You're better off without him.

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Good for you, you'll find someone more worthy of your time!! Also good for you for actually doing it in person, that's the way it should be done.

skullmaster9 10

Wow, I'm sorry to hear that. In no way should a woman be treated like that, at least you cared enough to break up face to face. Good for you :-)

kitsuneluvuh 12

op's not a woman. nobody deserves to be treated like that, though

elizacandle 29

good decision and good riddance

Completely ignores you when he's not horny...that's a huge red flag there

What is it with people on here getting people to come to them to break up with them? If you want out and want to tell them face to face, go to there house and tell them. " I want to finish face to face out of respect, but because I am lazy you can come to me and then go home upset/angry."

leogachi 15

@58 In this case I think it's more about the ex not deserving that kind of respect.

Well if that's the way he is you wasted more of your own time than his but sounds more like you knew he'd probably not even reply if you just text so were clearly hoping for some better reaction

I'm impressed you've made the effort to tell him eye-to-eye! Good luck finding a nicer person, OP :)

Severefear 7

Your boyfriend sounds like a pain in the ass.

You go, OP!! He kind of reminds me of my ex boyfriend who only texted me when he wanted to ****. Some guys are douches. But congratulations on your new found freedom!