Intimacy The big reveal

The big reveal

yeahthatsme - 30/07/2009 20:15 - United States

Today, I placed a personal ad advertising myself as an overweight woman wanting sex. I sent pictures of me in lingerie to men who replied and was pleased that almost all were still interested. Then I sent face pics. As it turns out, being fat is not my problem. Apparently I'm ugly. FML

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The rhythm of the fight
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Catfished

Alison - 08/12/2009 02:14 - United States

Today, the "hot" guy I've been talking to for a few weeks sent me a picture. He was very overweight and not good looking at all. He then followed up with, "Now send me one of you so I can prove to all of my friends that you're real." FML

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Body positivity denied

ConsideringPlasticSurgery - 12/08/2022 16:00

Today, and for the 6th time, I sent a potential suitor a full body picture. I usually get ghosted or called a plethora of fatshaming names. This time around the guy told me, “Wow. I’d kill myself if I had that body.” I’ve been single for 4 years and no matter how hard I try to find love, this happens. FML

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Anonymous - 13/07/2009 13:09 - Canada

Today, my friend posted my picture on Craigslist under the "men seeking men" section. I got 16 replies with 2 hours. He then decided to post another picture of me under "men seeking women" to compare results. The only reply I got was from a man. FML

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Farva - 24/01/2009 23:52 - United States

Today, I made a Craigslist ad looking for hot and horny women that wanted some. I only got one reply, from another guy asking me if this kind of thing actually works. FML

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Love life struggles

ihatemyself07 - 09/12/2025 20:00

Today, I came to terms with the fact that in order to get a boyfriend, I need to slim down. When I put full-body shots on dating apps, I get swiped left on. But when I put headshots, I get matches. And lots of them. But I can’t catfish these dudes. Time to go on a diet and hit the gym. It’s not fair. FML

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Congratulations, you played yourself

What have I done - 19/05/2024 10:00 - United States - Fort Lauderdale

Today, I asked a girl from Bumble for a full body pic. She was obese, so I told her it wasn’t gonna work. She then sent a video of her in real time looking slim and told me that picture was from when she was obese, and she'd sent that picture as a “test of my character” and she’s “better off without someone so judgy.” FML

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Noname - 03/02/2009 02:36 - United States

Today, I sent a guy that I like a lot a picture of myself. I'd got all dressed up sexy and did my make-up. He sent me a reply saying, "Your cat is fat." FML

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Everyone can be a 7

Olivia - 24/07/2024 03:00 - United States

Today, I quit dating forever. I’m an overweight girl with glasses. I attempted to put flattering selfies on dating profiles, but the guys run from me or ghost me when I meet them in person. I took a friend’s advice and put honest, full body pics of myself. I got zero messages. None. I give up. FML

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Honest discrimination

erin - 16/05/2021 17:01

Today, I was called fatphobic for rejecting an overweight man who asked me on a date. I don’t know how to force myself to be attracted to fat people. There’s just nothing there. FML

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Charming

Anonymous - 02/12/2023 11:00 - United Kingdom

Today, a girl I met on Tinder described herself as curvy and sent me pictures. We agreed to meet and let me say… those pictures were at least 10 years and 15 stone ago. She was no longer curvy or even just overweight, she was grossly obese. I could smell the unwashed skin under her fat rolls. FML

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hellobananas 0

Friday 31 July 2009 3:48

If you're looking for sex, the guys probably wouldn't care. Seriously, if a guy answered a personal ad, he probably isn't too choosy.

Metal1209 0

Friday 31 July 2009 2:28

Keep searching, I'm sure theres someone out there for you

xoxo9171 0

Friday 31 July 2009 19:18

YDI...why would u post that??

lovely997 0

Friday 31 July 2009 19:59

maybe she needed $$$ ?? =[

ScaryyMary 14

Friday 31 July 2009 19:58

BUTTERFACE!!! She might not have been obese, just "curvy" or "voluptuous". (And I mean actually one of those, not a fattie who says she is to feel better about herself.) Either way, FYL for looking like that, but majorly YDI for looking for sex like a ho.

hazelwolfeyes 0

Friday 31 July 2009 20:13

wow, im into sex in all...but i could never do a stranger. youre disgusting. imma laugh when you ******* get a stalker for passing out pictures to random people. have some respect for yourself... n just because your big doesnt mean your ugly...maybe the fact that your willing to give yourself to anyone is turning all the guys off... get yourself fixed cause i dont wanna know what your kids are going to be like...stupid should not breed... ugh, you make me sick...

Rydizzle 0

Friday 31 July 2009 20:32

haha O wow. thats sad. there is someone for you

vexion 0

Friday 31 July 2009 20:41

Amanda, is that you?

bribria 0

Friday 31 July 2009 21:06

Seriously you dont need to put yourself outlike that. That means you must not have tha much confidence in the first place. But hey one day one man will want to tap.