The old you, the new me

Sad and lonely - 13/05/2025 20:00 - Czechia - Prague

Today, I spent the day with my ex-husband, getting our house ready for market. We've been doing this for weeks, and to my shock, my ex has turned back into the hard-working, handy, patient man I fell in love with. I don't know what to say or do, so I spend every day quietly heartsick with longing. FML
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Call me little miss cynical if you like but maybe it has to do with getting out of a relationship that he was horribly unhappy in? Just the conclusion my brain jumped straight to...

You two aren't compatible. It happens.

Call me little miss cynical if you like but maybe it has to do with getting out of a relationship that he was horribly unhappy in? Just the conclusion my brain jumped straight to...

You two aren't compatible. It happens.

GoogieWithers 23

You broke up for a reason or many reasons. Some people just aren't compatible. The best thing that you can do for yourself is realise that the marriage is over.

You describe him in terms of his usefulnes to you, like a tool. You don't describe him as a person. Perhaps this is why you two broke up.

demetrius510 3

great point! well taken. dag nabbit!

I had an ex that completely changed once in a relationship. It was night and day. Then I realized that she was mirroring her parents relationship once fully committed.