Your parents don’t have to pay for college. Also, why is your mother doing your laundry? Why can’t you do your own? If you’re old enough to own a sex toy which I assume you bought with your money, you’re old enough to move out from under mom and dad’s roof. Time to grow up since you’re doing grown up things.

This is an over reaction and they could’ve opened the lid of the washer after it was done to see it because they didn’t realize op did their laundry. It happens. But holy shit OP, your parents must be religious zealots and I sympathize with what assholes religious assholes they can be. OP, try to find a friend you can stay with till you get on your feet, or rent a room from somewhere. Then go to town all you want. But just get the **** out of there. If it’s anything like what i went through, you’ll later be glad after you did, even if you struggle, it’s all for yourself afterwards. Also, go no contact with your family