By krh14 - 10/02/2015 12:59 - United States - Crofton

Today, my girlfriend was feeling a little down, so I tried to console her. She said she just needed space and I respected that. Then an hour later she was fine, so I asked how she did it. She replied that she talked to her ex for a whole hour. This is a common procedure. FML
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Same thing different taste

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She wasn't on the phone with her ex.. It was Jake from State Farm..

OP you need to sit down and talk to her about this since it's bothering you. If she can't come to you to talk about things then what's the point of a relationship? While it's great that she has someone else to talk to, I would think that it would be more of a girlfriend or someone close. Not saying that talking to an ex is a bad idea but when she's opening up it might be a little worrisome and bothersome. BTW, I like the fact that you gave her space. My husband and I had problems where he wanted to jump right in to help and I just needed time to think through things. That's very respectful and I applaud you for that. Again, just sit down and talk to her.

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I cannot imagine a guy getting this sort of benefit of the doubt from the comments if it were flipped. I know it's not the issue but I think it should be brought up and thought about.

ha ha may be her ex but there's still sex

instant break up cause she's still seeing him

The girlfriend is probably just really good friends with her ex and she feels comfortable talking to him. The only thing that could be a problem is that she feels more comfortable talking to her ex than OP, which suggests communication issues. OP's obviously trying and cares about their girlfriend, which is probably why it bothers them so much.