By Hopeless - 12/07/2009 03:18 - United States

Today, my boyfriend called me and he was very upset, crying that he had been betrayed. He then began to explain that his friend had slept with his ex-girlfriend. I asked why he was so upset, and he said he still loved her, and really thought they were going to be able to work things out. FML
I agree, your life sucks 65 605
You deserved it 3 609

Same thing different taste

Top comments

Tell him you slept with his friend as well, and you can understand why his ex made the choice she did.

Ive been there... my advice get rid of him

Comments

You know what, your BF is an ass! You should've given him more reason to cry by breaking up with him at that precise moment. The nerve he has for vene crying infront of you!

_THE_MASTER_ 0

get rid of that tool. kick him in the balls for good measure. and also tell him that nobody loves him, and nobody ever will, because he's a whiny little bitch and he deserves to be alone for the rest of his life, always pining after the chick who banged his best friend. at least, i would to that if i was a girl and in your situation. normally, if a girl does that to me, and we've been dating, (granted, this only happened with ONE of my ex-gf's) i told her that it was probably because god hated her. and then called her a *****. and then broke it off with her. but, then again, I'm VERY mature. =P

Make him cry harder by dumping him.

Proper response would have been "Aww, sweetie, what rotten luck. Your best friend slept with your ex, and you got dumped all on the same day."

OMG!!!! this is sooooo messed up!!

enormouselephant 15
jmiller253 0

damn ur the girlfriend and u don't even exist in his world.

You should've told him, "Wow, that's funny.... I slept with your friend TOO."

agree with #56. This is screwed up in more ways than I can count. Simple solution though = leave him. #58 was funny too. FYL.

Shmeh 0

yeah, basically, the same thing happened to me. break up with him, i'm sure you already did, which is a smart move. hes a dick to do that to you. and it sucks because his ex gf already moved on, and hes still hooked on her, when he should be hooked on you. ugh it's just, wrong.

xTheBasicFlawx 0

Wow, that's hard. :( If he does love her though, I understand, but that doesn't make it any easier for you. He shouldn't have entered into a relationship with you, obviously, and, hard as it may be, you should break up with him if you already haven't. Try to keep in mind that you probably aren't to blame at all; it's nothing that you did. He simply has feelings for someone else. It's not a slight to you, as much as it may hurt, and it's probably got nothing to do with her being better than you in any way. If you can't tell, I've been through this sort of thing, and I think the worst thing you can do is beat yourself up about it. Hopefully, you don't love him, since it'll be a whole lot easier to move on that way, but, if you do, good luck, seriously. On the bright side, he did tell you. The truth hurts, but it's better to know than to think he loves you if he doesn't. Chin up...there're better, less involved people out there just waiting for someone to love and treat right. :)