Yeah this may sound easier then it is at first, but try not to make a big deal out of it. If you worry about it too much next time, it'll happen again.

Hey I wish my boyfriend was that short. He typically lasts an hour and a half before we quit. He's cum about... 3 times while we were making love? it took him over a year. We have to do foreplay for like... hours before hand for him to actually finish.

I'm fifteen and have lasted eighteen minutes before... but before that I would manage like four minutes, so it was a very quick improvement...

give her a vibrator and just watch.. thats about how much fun you'll be getting /hahahaha

We need more girl-made replies on this... Start with "I'm a woman/girl and I think 3 minutes is [way too short / somewhat short / decent / fun enough / etc]." Also, ignore politeness. If you lie he'll never have a reason to try improving himself. So, if you're female, reply!

I'm a woman (married). 3.5 minutes? Clearly you're a teenager. It sucks, for both of you, but you'll figure it out. At this point, she's probably relieved it didn't take long cuz you probably suck in bed. But realistically, once you've got "skills" and can actually please a woman, the entire sex process (w/ foreplay etc) should take AT LEAST 30 minutes, if not an hour. Those are our best "sex sessions". Don't give up, by all means, just keep practicing........ learn to focus on something else to make it last longer. Or try desensitizing condoms, they're thicker so you can't feel as much so that you CAN last longer if you're unable to on your own. and by all means, regardless of how long/short you last, make sure she gets off one way or another.

i'm a woman, haha. three and a half minutes? was it your first time, or what? you need to practice practice PRACTICE! i feel bad for your girl.

dude, these people are being mean to you. I'm a girl and I love it fast and furious. If she hasn't come by the time you have, just finish her with your hands so that she gets her satisfaction too.

omg people are dumb.....I AM A GIRL....and i have to say 3.5 mins is okay like not really lol but its okay when you are younger geezzz just give you a tip foreplay is awesome :) works great :) eventually you'll be able to last longer, like my ex he lasted i kid you not like 2 mins the first time the sec was longer the 5 was like an hour it just depends on your age and how much "practise" ya get lol

im a girl too. i think 3.5 min isnt the greatest, but it is still perfectly fine on 3 conditions 1. theres good foreplay, and alot of it 2. if shes still horny you finish her with your hands/mouth (if you dont mind the taste) 3. youre young/ havent done it too often just saying thats my opinion ^^ my bf doesnt last long either and its still amazing