Too many negative votes, comment buried

Doesn't say anything about the discussion having started because OP thought the BF didn't know what consent was- people are discussing consent a LOT in the wake of all the sexual misconduct coming to light. Also, maybe not every man, but nearly a third of college age men *DON'T* know what rape is. http://online.liebertpub.com/doi/pdf/10.1089/vio.2014.0022 Note that only includes specific scenarios of rape. If you expand it to include coercive rape- such as pressuring them into sex because the guy paid for the date, because she agreed to extend the date, or other factors- other studies have found that figure jumps up to 66% or more not understanding that coerced consent isn't valid consent. So yeah, statistically speaking, making sure that you have the same concept of consent as a romantic partner is a valid concern, particularly when men are involved. Also, even putting aside the statistics behind it, what he did is still manipulative as ****, since it's pretty obvious that was his intention from the get go. He's using sexual manipulation- which is a form of coercion- to try to make OP agree that he shouldn't be "allowed" to stop. Which- since the removal of consent usually occurs due to pain or discomfort- says the guy has some very ****** up views on consent and emotions. In others, not exactly a good sign for him being a safe and stable partner.