Nonono. That's a waste of perfectly good cookies. I'm over here trying to figure out who in their right mind would say 'no' to cookies in the first place!!

Because putting people through that sort of treatment is a sure fire way to get them to like you.

I'm going to make an assumption from the FML where it says "never actually wanted me to come" and say that she was probably invited at some point. Nobody in their right mind would ever do something like this if they weren't invited. Now let's consider your ridiculous theory. She randomly makes cookies for, gets ready for, and drives many hours for a guy who never invited her to his place. That is indeed, very creepy. But if that was the case, then what the **** sense does it make to slam the door in her face and text her? Don't you think that's sort of a pussy move to make? He didn't even have the balls to look her in the eyes and tell her (stalker or not) that he doesn't want her there? You don't think that's pathetic?

So if your stalker showed up at your door, why wouldn't you tell them to leave, threaten to call the police, or anything else at all instead of TEXTING them "I met someone else"?? That's the pathetic part im talking about. I wouldn't expect anyone with common sense to behave that way if a stalker showed up.

I have to wonder just how enthusiastic he was when OP was arranging the visit. If she had to talk him into it, well, that's a sign right there that he didn't want her there. Some people, while not exactly stalkerish, can be a bit pushy. It's how telemarketers make their money, dragging a yes out of people who have run out of excuses to say no but don't want to be rude.